"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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My date to prom, confused

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I'll start by asking you guys not to flame a novice here


I asked this girl to prom and she said yes, but I'm not sure that she knows my intentions, or that she thinks that we're going as friends. How can I make it clearer what I want, or see what she wants?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, could you be a little bit more clear. I'm slightly confused. You asked her to prom and she said yes, which in my book is a sure indicator of interest beyond the level of friends Is she a friend or something and you asked her to go as friends??
 
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Originally posted by Prophett
Dude, could you be a little bit more clear. I'm slightly confused. You asked her to prom and she said yes, which in my book is a sure indicator of interest beyond the level of friends Is she a friend or something and you asked her to go as friends??
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Ditto.
 
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when your at prom, you will naturally be close alot dancing, pictures, dinner, etc.

easiest time ever for the kiss is while dancing close, all you have to do is stare into her eyes. if she returns your stare, then kiss her. right on the lips
 
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just be c&f and seductive at the prom, she'll know your intentions
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when your around her, esspecially at the prom, act like your intentions. Don't act like a friend. For example put your arm around her or hold her hand when walking.
 
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you asked her to prom. She said yes. What are you worrying about?

Be flirty, be seductive, and go in for the kiss at the end (perhaps more).
 
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and if she doesn't kiss you LEAVE HER ASS THERE.

hahaaaaaaaaahahaa
 
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ok now all of these work.but what if you are taking a hot ass girl who has had the same bf for two years?lol she got kicked out a year ago,junoir year,and we kep in contact and like i asked her if she wanted to go and she said yeah.lol she drove for a hour to pick up the forms(i can tell she was a little upset from that cause she ignored everyone around me and wasnt hlla playful like she normally is,but she came).she had to sign forms cause she was not going to my school.even though she has a bf you think i can knock down her force field and get some?i mean like she knows that i used to think she is hot.
 
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Prophett, I got asked to prom last year by the only girl who has ever seriously interested me. Should I have asked her out? How should I have done it?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Maeisgood, if it was a good night, and she enjoyed it, then you could have asked her out right there, and she'd probably have said yes.
 
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