"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My date to prom, confused

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I'll start by asking you guys not to flame a novice here


I asked this girl to prom and she said yes, but I'm not sure that she knows my intentions, or that she thinks that we're going as friends. How can I make it clearer what I want, or see what she wants?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, could you be a little bit more clear. I'm slightly confused. You asked her to prom and she said yes, which in my book is a sure indicator of interest beyond the level of friends Is she a friend or something and you asked her to go as friends??
 
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Originally posted by Prophett
Dude, could you be a little bit more clear. I'm slightly confused. You asked her to prom and she said yes, which in my book is a sure indicator of interest beyond the level of friends Is she a friend or something and you asked her to go as friends??
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Ditto.
 
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when your at prom, you will naturally be close alot dancing, pictures, dinner, etc.

easiest time ever for the kiss is while dancing close, all you have to do is stare into her eyes. if she returns your stare, then kiss her. right on the lips
 
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just be c&f and seductive at the prom, she'll know your intentions
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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when your around her, esspecially at the prom, act like your intentions. Don't act like a friend. For example put your arm around her or hold her hand when walking.
 
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you asked her to prom. She said yes. What are you worrying about?

Be flirty, be seductive, and go in for the kiss at the end (perhaps more).
 
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and if she doesn't kiss you LEAVE HER ASS THERE.

hahaaaaaaaaahahaa
 
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ok now all of these work.but what if you are taking a hot ass girl who has had the same bf for two years?lol she got kicked out a year ago,junoir year,and we kep in contact and like i asked her if she wanted to go and she said yeah.lol she drove for a hour to pick up the forms(i can tell she was a little upset from that cause she ignored everyone around me and wasnt hlla playful like she normally is,but she came).she had to sign forms cause she was not going to my school.even though she has a bf you think i can knock down her force field and get some?i mean like she knows that i used to think she is hot.
 
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Prophett, I got asked to prom last year by the only girl who has ever seriously interested me. Should I have asked her out? How should I have done it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maeisgood, if it was a good night, and she enjoyed it, then you could have asked her out right there, and she'd probably have said yes.
 
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