Ll Principe
Don Juan
Hey all...
I never got any replies to my "Marketing day" thread or my "scores vs sex" thread in that case I hope you guys took note to what I said.
Anyway...
Last evening I went on a date to a movie with this girl and normally during the movie Id kiss the girl and get kino going. Last night I tried a new approach, my old approach got me to one-night stands and relationships that never lasted long, maybe its for other reasons but I tried to rather get to know the girl last night and proceed to kiss her on the 2nd date than to do what I normally do, yes, get the kiss, but will the kiss be one that gets me the girl for years and years or same like before, where didnt last long?
Is it because of me not taking time to get to know her is another story. My approach to the whole thing last night kind of never worked for me per say. We saw the movie( no kiss or kino) and than went to chat for an hour, Id say the conversation was pretty boring even though I did my best to liven it up.
What have I learnt from this change of strategy?
Well, what I have learnt is either
a) I wasnt into her at all , in that case, I should have still kissed her
b) Not kissing/ using kino put a damper on the night whereas on my other dates it makes us more at ease and more open with the other girls I been with.
To conclude: Yes, maybe I should say because I never kissed her Im not being a "player" but what is a player, a player is someone afraid of love. Is Don Juan afraid of love? I doubt it. So to proceed my advice is when changing strategies always maintain that if your PLAN/WAYS was working for you, why change them? yes, its good to test the waters... but always remember if its working, why change it? AND if I dont get my 2nd date with her, I only got myself to blame for not implementing my kino.:yes:
I never got any replies to my "Marketing day" thread or my "scores vs sex" thread in that case I hope you guys took note to what I said.
Anyway...
Last evening I went on a date to a movie with this girl and normally during the movie Id kiss the girl and get kino going. Last night I tried a new approach, my old approach got me to one-night stands and relationships that never lasted long, maybe its for other reasons but I tried to rather get to know the girl last night and proceed to kiss her on the 2nd date than to do what I normally do, yes, get the kiss, but will the kiss be one that gets me the girl for years and years or same like before, where didnt last long?
Is it because of me not taking time to get to know her is another story. My approach to the whole thing last night kind of never worked for me per say. We saw the movie( no kiss or kino) and than went to chat for an hour, Id say the conversation was pretty boring even though I did my best to liven it up.
What have I learnt from this change of strategy?
Well, what I have learnt is either
a) I wasnt into her at all , in that case, I should have still kissed her
b) Not kissing/ using kino put a damper on the night whereas on my other dates it makes us more at ease and more open with the other girls I been with.
To conclude: Yes, maybe I should say because I never kissed her Im not being a "player" but what is a player, a player is someone afraid of love. Is Don Juan afraid of love? I doubt it. So to proceed my advice is when changing strategies always maintain that if your PLAN/WAYS was working for you, why change them? yes, its good to test the waters... but always remember if its working, why change it? AND if I dont get my 2nd date with her, I only got myself to blame for not implementing my kino.:yes: