"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My date is texting my buddy..what to make of it?

spiegel549

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Hey guys, to keep it short and sweet I met a girl Saturday. We danced and made out the entire night, exchanged numbers and set up a date. She called today to cancel but then countered by saying "I am really sorry any other day this week just let me know and I will come out and see you!" (showing high interest) So our date is set up for tomorrow.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199338


All of a sudden at 8pm I get a phone call from this broad...I answer and it sounds like she is "butt dialing" me.

I text and say "Hey you called me, whats up?" She responds 2 hours later and says "Sorry I am horrible with this phone, butt dial :)"

I didn't respond I was almost asleep....now my buddy JUST calls me...and goes dude that girl your taking on a date tomorrow has been hitting me up all day....I said tell me more?

Basically he got her number 2 weeks ago. (No physical contact with her) and randomly today she texts him and needs a ride to school, sending winking faces etc.

He responds with "I can't blah blah"

Now she starts hitting him up a little after she butt dialed me asking what he is doing etc. and he said to her "Are you flirting with me?" (knowing she has a date with me tomorrow)

and she responds with "Maybe. I will leave that for you to figure out."


Now fellow brothers.....I know she isn't my GF...we had a make out session, a little tit grabbing, and she seems highly interested in me if you read the previous post I wrote...but whats up with the texting my friends??? Am I being a beta ***** and looking too into this crap??

Advice please!
 

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Greasy Pig

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Use her to extract as much of your bodily fluids as possible and that's all.
Hopefully your buddy will get some action too so you can both laugh at her if you see her in public.
 

Cremasta

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Well, now that you and your buddy both know she's playing the game... play it right back.

Take her out for dates, but make her pay her own way.
See if she likes spit roast :up:
 

PapiChulo

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Dont let it bother you. Hoe is a hoe.
 

VinceV

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I would stay away from any girl who attempts to dial your number with her butt
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cordoncordon

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Does she know that you are friends with the other guy she is flirting with?
 

marmel75

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Time to have a "who fvcks her first" contest...have fun
 

Chickfight

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You've heard of spinning plates.. Well, girls do it too. Accept it and don't sweat it.
 

vatoloco

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Chickfight said:
You've heard of spinning plates.. Well, girls do it too. Accept it and don't sweat it.
+1

Better yet, spin [more] plates of your own (see sig below).
 

Aristippus

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Greasy Pig said, "Use her to extract as much of your bodily fluids as possible and that's all."

Hahahahahaha! I love how he makes it sound like a medical procedure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheWolfMan

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I kind of like Cremasta's advice, at least the other dude is you're friend. You and your buddy know she's playin you guys, so you could have some serious fun and play back with her.
 

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hahahahaha

I think you have found a crazy!

I've met a few girls like this in my time. they like to watch what happens when they do that. they are like trolls. they get an amusement out of seeing how you and your boy handle the situation.

whether you get mad
whether it causes a rift between you

she knows your boy will text you.
she's playing with the both of you.

my advice to you is:
if you dont need that **** in your life, drop her. now. don't let her in.

if you are bored and want something to do, delve yourself into the world of an insane chick. it'll be a good experience. the good news is they are usually slvts and will give their body for the thrill of trying to drive you and your boy apart. just make sure not to get sucked in too deep.

enjoy this, they are a rare find indeed.
I would compare them to bane.
 
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