My Dad the married DJ

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

DJ Noble

Don Juan

May 27, 2008

Technical1 said:
Thats the problem with naturals, they have no idea how to convey intellectually what they mean when they give advice. My dad would also say this simplified stuff about women. Now, he's right, its actually that simple IMO, but if you come at it from an over-intellectualized AFC angle, you need to be de-AFCed with intellectual arguments based on experience, before you can grasp how simple all this sh1t is. Its like getting out of a fvcking labrynth. Thank god for SoSuave!!

So true.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.