"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My D1 went too logical - how not to be logical?

mrgoodstuff

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Thanks guys for the input.

Another question for the "Attraction masters":
I'm able to create instant attraction when I first talk to her. However attraction dissipates after 10 seconds.

I tried the following to keep the attraction going:
* Silent and eye contact
* Escalate Touching
* Talk anything that comes to my mind

None of those three worked. Need help to keep attraction going. Thanks
Hows your body and dress? Women are suckers for a well dressed man. Part of your arsenal will be your swagger, how you smell and her imagination. Have stuff you do without her.

All of those micro analyzed movements your talking about will come natural when you are visually attractive to her and have the power. You will just do and say whats right...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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escaleraroyal

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Devilkingx2: good point
Mrgoodstuffs: dress is average, not sharp (suit). Smell, dont really botther to wear cologne when i go to work. I fix my hair nicely though. Well to tell you the truth, outer game is the least i'm worried about.
 

escaleraroyal

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Today is my last day of my 10 days challenge where I have to fclose. I was unable to fclose but it helped me a lot to improve my game. However it's very exhausted.
I think I figured it out what is missing. But it's just theory not verified yet. I incorporated more friendly vibe into my game (More smile, laugh, etc). I Number closed girl who was going to see bf. Number feels solid as I held her on my arms and she reciprocated.
 
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