"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My d!ck stopped working.

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Da Game

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OK, here's the situation. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months and we've been having awesome sex the whole time. Last night we said the L-word for the first time (something I've never said to any other girl and don't really want advice on). I was a little hesitant... Last night when we had sex I couldn't cvm and today when she gave me head I couldn't even stay up! This has NEVER happened to me before, and it could definitely screw up our relationship. I smoke weed regularly but it has never caused this problem before.

My question: has anything of this sort ever happened to anyone else? Any suggestions on what I should do? My current plan is to not have sex for a couple days and see if that fixes the problem, and if that doesn't work I'm going to quit smoking. How much effect can psychological stuff have on my tool, anyway? Please help me out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot Ice

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Too much smoking, too much jerking and stress and pressure.
 
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You must be smokin some weak stuff. Weed always makes me horny and never has an effect on my "willy". Its probably because she said the "L word" to you. She has just killed all the attraction. How do you love someone after 3 months? How old are you anyway?
 
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