"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My d!ck stopped working.

Da Game

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OK, here's the situation. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months and we've been having awesome sex the whole time. Last night we said the L-word for the first time (something I've never said to any other girl and don't really want advice on). I was a little hesitant... Last night when we had sex I couldn't cvm and today when she gave me head I couldn't even stay up! This has NEVER happened to me before, and it could definitely screw up our relationship. I smoke weed regularly but it has never caused this problem before.

My question: has anything of this sort ever happened to anyone else? Any suggestions on what I should do? My current plan is to not have sex for a couple days and see if that fixes the problem, and if that doesn't work I'm going to quit smoking. How much effect can psychological stuff have on my tool, anyway? Please help me out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hot Ice

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Too much smoking, too much jerking and stress and pressure.
 

icecreaman

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You must be smokin some weak stuff. Weed always makes me horny and never has an effect on my "willy". Its probably because she said the "L word" to you. She has just killed all the attraction. How do you love someone after 3 months? How old are you anyway?
 
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