My curious case!

[EVU]

I have been reading the forum for a while and was very impressed with the community here, so i decided to join in.

Here it goes... I am 20, quite good looking, and definitely confident. My "career" with women has been moderately successful and I consider my DJ ability to be relatively decent.

Recently I have gotten in contact with a girl that I went to school with, although we didn't know each other while there, I was quite aware of her existence. Nothing new, right?

However, after a lot of communication (btw I study abroad and we are in different countries atm) I think I have fallen for a girl OVER THE INTERNET! Nothing new, again... All of us have been there.

In this situation I actually am sure that she is what I need! Not bang and boot, but genuine human attraction...

So what is curious about this? I am about to step into a "new" territory here... She is a strong individual, with good upbringing. Has a very strong father figure (her dad) and thus far no obvious complexes. Yes, academically smart, very attractive and very clever. To top it of she has a very feisty personality.

For me this is treading into unknown. I will see her in a week and for the first time in my life I am intimidated by a girl. She is definitely responding in a positive way to me, but I genuinely want to make it work.

My issue is that I have little to noting to plan a strategy with. I am fully aware that in person communication is different. And I am certain that more will be revealed when we get more acquainted. But for now I have no plan... How do i go upon conquering a girl like this?

P.S. Sorry if i sound desperate, no matter how much i like her i will not lose my "cool" and by no mean seem desperate. I just want to make it work.

Any ideas? Experiences? Suggestions?

Thank you guys in advance.

 

[Spinning Spinning]

Be yourself. DO NOT try and be something you're not. Unless of course you're looking for casual sex. If you really like this girl you have to show her your real personality. That doesn't necessarily mean showing your hand early.

 

[youngmack]

And be on your toes at all times, my ex was somewhat like this girl your describing, smart, clever, hot etc. turns out she knew the fame and played me so make sure your gaming her so she can be all yours and dont fall too fast or a least dont show her, because she'll most likely take advantage of you....

 

[switch]

she is in another country huh? well let me tell you a story son:
a girl came from another country to study here at my town..she was in a lovey dovey relationship with her BF back in her country...after two years their long term relationship broke...now i see her with a new BF every 3 months or so...
lesson:if its going to be a long distance relationship(what i call long distance BS)
then dont waste your time...its a pain in the a$$ to keep a girl when you are miles away