"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my crush came over

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Well, today after school me crush and I ran into each other in the street and we talked for a bit.

Then she started talking about how she broke up and stuff and basically she came over. We ate, talked, and did some stuff for a project (diff groups, but same topic).

I'm happy right now. :) Basically I can now not worry about her bf. Anyways, go ahead and call me AFC for saying this, but it feels good to have someone confide in you and trust you. MAybe I was being emotionally tampon'd, but the convo was pretty mutual and stuff.

Motivation is probably supposed to be inner, but in this case it isn't. I think this is oneitis, but hey I've kept my feelings and stuff covered to her and every one else...just lettin out my happiness a bit on here . :)

I'm probably going to hear some stuff about this...tomrrow. and if she gets back together with her bf, it would suck so much, but for now. I'm just going to enjoy it while it lasts. cheers .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hate to sound like a jerk, and you know I like you, but what was the point of this thread? :confused: Do you need help?
 

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no not really man. I'm just happy. But knowing myself, I'll probably stay in the friend zone. or not. who knows. we're both very busy people.
 

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
no not really man. I'm just happy. But knowing myself, I'll probably stay in the friend zone. or not. who knows. we're both very busy people.
Remember kino, C&F, and that last trick.
 

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Did you get her # when u said goodbye @ ur house?

If not, casually bring it up and get her # the next time you see her. Then, in a few days, use the # and GO HANG OUT WITH HER. SHE TOLD YOU SHES DONE WITH HER BF FOR A REASON... youre HER CRUSH too!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Did you get her # when u said goodbye @ ur house?

If not, casually bring it up and get her # the next time you see her. Then, in a few days, use the # and GO HANG OUT WITH HER. SHE TOLD YOU SHES DONE WITH HER BF FOR A REASON... youre HER CRUSH too!
uh..yeah. Well everyone kinda knew haha. I just found out today. Anyhow, I will get her number next time. I kinda forgot but invited her back again.
 

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Originally posted by Bling
I hate to sound like a jerk, and you know I like you, but what was the point of this thread? :confused: Do you need help?
He is happy that he talked to a girl for the first time and it happens to be the girl he likes.
 

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hey I think I might go AFC again because of this.

I'm thinking I should probably keep in mind what happened and what we talked about, but still act normally. Also, she said some stuff about her bf...I'm thinking I should just bury that inside me right? Gossip is no fun.

Also, how can I get closer to her. I'm going to try some kino, but I severely doubt it.

I think she is bothered by the fact that her bf just moved on immediately after breaking up because he semi-found another gal while with her. Anyways, she's still hung up on it even though she is the one who was the victim. I think she still wants to go out with him, and I can't believe I'm typing that, but it is a harsh possiblity I will have to accept.

I might just be a rebound guy/tool to get him jealous.....who knows. :( I'm confused now.
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Grab your b@lls and do it.

If you don't do it fast you will be put in the friend zone.
I've been in the friend zone for 4 years or so LOL.

Yeah...now what. And do what fast?

EDIT: btw, Gigalo, your gf has nice tits.
 

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I don't rally think you mean that you want to be an AFC, but that you enjoy semideep conversations and all. I am with you there. Sometimes this site gives you the idea that we are chasing superficial relationships.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah this is true. I like deep conversations and less fluff talk. That seems to be a waste of my time. and whoever I am talking to.
 
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