"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My crazy radar is thru the roof Lol..bar last night

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So me an a couple of friends went out for a bit of socializing. We were posted up scoping out the scene and just talking. Well this chick comes near us and asks to squeeze thru to order a drink. Of course we oblige, and she was nice enough. But as I looked into her eyes and assessed her...I could just SENSE something was "off" about her. My friend said a few things to her and she responded in kind. Like i said...i was all skeptical hippo on her. I just knew she was on some BPD ****....I could sense her aura...because it was the same kind of energy my ex had. I commented about that to my buddy who was right there.

Anyway a short while later we are outside and this girl storms out of the bar looking upset and power walks off into the night. a moment later some dude comes out and yells out her name and she ignores. he comments "**** man shes pissed" ...it was the same girl we encountered earlier. I shared a glance with my bro and I was like dude i told you that chick was nutty! I could sense and lo an behold she proved it. it was like i was watching my ex in action.

so often storming out of the bar over some trivial matters and acting nuts..anyway it really is quite an interesting view being able to spot the crazyness that way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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