"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My cousin the DJ

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This is just an interesting story I'd like to share. My cousin and I stopped at a gas station the other day, and here's what he did: As he's pumping gas, this girl is walking to her car and he yells out for everybody to hear,"Hey girl, It's too hot to be wearing pants." What surprised me the most is the fact that she didn't even turn around after he said this. I know she heard him. Next, he starts talking to this guy at another pump for a minute or two.

He then yells out to 2 other girls. He then goes in to pay for the gas. As he's coming out this other girl says something to her boyfriend/husband sitting in a truck. My cousin thought she was talking to him, and he turns around and says something to her. She says something back. My cousin then says,"Oh, I thought you were talking to me" as he passes right by her boyfriend. She then says,"Well, I wasn't" with an attitude. My cousin gets back in the car and isn't bothered by it one bit. He just shrugs it off like it's nothing.

All this from a simple trip to the gas station. I swear this guy is a social animal. He's had more girls than I can count. I wish I had just half of his social confidence.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One stragety to be good at anything is to Model someone or something that is excellent at that particular field you want to be good at it. I think you've found your model, now all you have to do is model his concepts and add your own flavor to the mix.

Being good at anything also requires specialize knowledge, constant repetition and practice. Do all the following and you'll be this " DJ" you sought after.
 

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He just sounds like an a22hole to me..not a player..
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
He just sounds like an a22hole to me..not a player..

That's why he is a player; the irony of it.

He doesn't give a damn about anything. He is fearless, and he goes after what he wants. Now, do you think women find those qualities attractive?

The numbers game at its best. Or the Funel Theory concept. That's how he gets enough play.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
That's why he is a player; the irony of it.

He doesn't give a damn about anything. He is fearless, and he goes after what he wants. Now, do you think women find those qualities attractive?

The numbers game at its best. Or the Funel Theory concept. That's how he gets enough play.
Never heard of the funel theory concept...

knglerxt the heck is up with your name? Your cousin sounds like a cool guy, I'd sarge with him.

If you wanted advice than take Rolys its good, your cuz is a good model, take the best and leave the rest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bonez said:
Never heard of the funel theory concept...

knglerxt the heck is up with your name?

My favorite band is Rush, and their guitarist's nickname is King Lerxt. I just abbreviated it.
 

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nice never heard of rush, I feel so old now.

You're mean, I don;t like you!
 

knglerxt

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Bonez said:
nice never heard of rush, I feel so old now.

You're mean, I don;t like you!

Actually, Rush is an old band. They've been out since 1974. They are still making albums and touring, too.
 
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He has balls though he could have been a lot smarter and he may have been able to fvck one of the girls.
 
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