"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My cousin the DJ

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This is just an interesting story I'd like to share. My cousin and I stopped at a gas station the other day, and here's what he did: As he's pumping gas, this girl is walking to her car and he yells out for everybody to hear,"Hey girl, It's too hot to be wearing pants." What surprised me the most is the fact that she didn't even turn around after he said this. I know she heard him. Next, he starts talking to this guy at another pump for a minute or two.

He then yells out to 2 other girls. He then goes in to pay for the gas. As he's coming out this other girl says something to her boyfriend/husband sitting in a truck. My cousin thought she was talking to him, and he turns around and says something to her. She says something back. My cousin then says,"Oh, I thought you were talking to me" as he passes right by her boyfriend. She then says,"Well, I wasn't" with an attitude. My cousin gets back in the car and isn't bothered by it one bit. He just shrugs it off like it's nothing.

All this from a simple trip to the gas station. I swear this guy is a social animal. He's had more girls than I can count. I wish I had just half of his social confidence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One stragety to be good at anything is to Model someone or something that is excellent at that particular field you want to be good at it. I think you've found your model, now all you have to do is model his concepts and add your own flavor to the mix.

Being good at anything also requires specialize knowledge, constant repetition and practice. Do all the following and you'll be this " DJ" you sought after.
 

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He just sounds like an a22hole to me..not a player..
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
He just sounds like an a22hole to me..not a player..

That's why he is a player; the irony of it.

He doesn't give a damn about anything. He is fearless, and he goes after what he wants. Now, do you think women find those qualities attractive?

The numbers game at its best. Or the Funel Theory concept. That's how he gets enough play.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
That's why he is a player; the irony of it.

He doesn't give a damn about anything. He is fearless, and he goes after what he wants. Now, do you think women find those qualities attractive?

The numbers game at its best. Or the Funel Theory concept. That's how he gets enough play.
Never heard of the funel theory concept...

knglerxt the heck is up with your name? Your cousin sounds like a cool guy, I'd sarge with him.

If you wanted advice than take Rolys its good, your cuz is a good model, take the best and leave the rest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bonez said:
Never heard of the funel theory concept...

knglerxt the heck is up with your name?

My favorite band is Rush, and their guitarist's nickname is King Lerxt. I just abbreviated it.
 

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nice never heard of rush, I feel so old now.

You're mean, I don;t like you!
 

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Bonez said:
nice never heard of rush, I feel so old now.

You're mean, I don;t like you!

Actually, Rush is an old band. They've been out since 1974. They are still making albums and touring, too.
 
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He has balls though he could have been a lot smarter and he may have been able to fvck one of the girls.
 
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