"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My condo

Eccentric

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http://good-times.webshots.com/album/567131072MSeCiC

Before an After pics. 14-23 is before, everything else is after obviously. The camera really can't capture the mood though. When the lights are dim, there's just an awesome ambient effect that screams "you're getting laid here tonight" plus it smells like French Vanilla lol.


I still need odds and ends here and there, but for the most part it's done. My couch is like sitting on a cloud, which they love. And you can't tell with my bed, but its a $2000 King Koil (bought it on sale at Sleepys though) with a suede comforter and the softest sheets I could buy, feels like you're sleeping on a cloud wrapped in silk. Couch = Win, Bedroom = Win lol.

Everything in the place is brand new in the after pictures. Carpet and paint aside. It's a small condo, but I couldn't be happier with the way it turned out. I just have to get my kitchen counter wall painted. But I got a lot of help from my dad planning this place out.

He must have been a pimp back in the day cause he knew exactly how I wanted it without really telling him. He's like I know you're 24 (at the time) and you want it to be a mans place etc. My guy friends are jealous, and the girls I've brought back here fell in love with it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OzyBoy

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Not bad. I hope to have a place to my own within the next year and i will really do it up. I should be making quite good money by then so i can buy heeps of stuff. :cool:
 
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