"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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khkish

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I have a girl in my class, shes hot! we knw each other for around a year now.
She likes me too, I know that. She have 2 more guys trying to impress her, but she likes me more..
I hv tried this don juan tricks, good posture, relaxed, confident & all, and im sure this works!
Most of the time, she is with our friends group...or her best friend-girl. I rarely get time with her alone.
But I make the most, I hold her hands & flirt and all ,she smiles & enjoys it.
I also call her almost 4-5 days week for 10 minutes...
The problem is, I hv asked her twice for a date on phone, since we've met, & she never said no,
she says she never had a bf, so a bit shy & will think about it ..

Advice please...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have asked her twice for a date on the phone? What happened, you say she never said no?

Next time you're out with friends and having a good time, just try to get that date in real life.
 

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Thanks for the reply man..yeah lol I know I screwed up shouldn't have asked her on the phone or the chatting.
It were holidays, and she was like I'm rly bored these days and have nothing really to do...I want to watch that movie,and that one etc etc...
so once I asked her on the chatting and then once in the phone...if she is not interested, then why does she say Im bored & wanna watch some new movies...specially the romantic ones :-D
I know man, she said romantic! Anyone could have asked her out when she said that on the call..
And yeah she didn't say no, she says excuses like she's busy... exams are near.... never out with any guy....I have to ask my mother& my sister.
And she really studies hard... really intelligent,so I guess she is not lying.
We are having exams around for a month now, we all be free for almost two months after that,
So I cant ask her out after the exams ,we all are going to be at home, and I dont think calling again to ask her out is a good idea.
I have to ask her during exams lol :-D
Is she keeping me on the hook or what? Or is she really confused & shy about going out with a guy, I really dont understand.
 
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