"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my career counselor is HOT. How to approach this one?

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She's got 3 years on me (not that I care) but should I just wait until we're done with our business to ask her out?

This is great, though...our 5-minute meeting today ended up becoming 30 minutes of semi-flirty BSing : )
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Career counselor? You mean she's like your boss or something? Watch out with that man, a lot of guys got f*cked by women like that, and I don't mean litteraly. lol.
 
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I say f*ck it! Ask her out, bro. But do it with conviction, otherwise this broad will walk all over your AFC ass.
 
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snowdog said:
Career counselor? You mean she's like your boss or something?
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Boss? No, I'm technically disabled (I consider ADD an overdiagnosed condition, but I'm capitalizing off of it) and getting some help doing a job search for college. Most of my counselors have been pretty old...

EDIT: Yeah, pretty sure I'm putting the brakes on this one (at least until we're done working). Read up on it and if it got out, it wouldn't be the best for her career. I'm a dog, but I'm not THAT much of a dog...
 
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Boss? No, I'm technically disabled (I consider ADD an overdiagnosed condition, but I'm capitalizing off of it) and getting some help doing a job search for college. Most of my counselors have been pretty old...

EDIT: Yeah, pretty sure I'm putting the brakes on this one (at least until we're done working). Read up on it and if it got out, it wouldn't be the best for her career. I'm a dog, but I'm not THAT much of a dog...
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Oh come on, bro! Dip it in!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's a career counselor, so she sees a lot of losers every day who tell and show her all their faults. She has a job. You clearly don't. Why would she even think about you outside of work? That said, you could charm her, if you have that personality.
 
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