Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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my career counselor is HOT. How to approach this one?

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She's got 3 years on me (not that I care) but should I just wait until we're done with our business to ask her out?

This is great, though...our 5-minute meeting today ended up becoming 30 minutes of semi-flirty BSing : )
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Career counselor? You mean she's like your boss or something? Watch out with that man, a lot of guys got f*cked by women like that, and I don't mean litteraly. lol.
 
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I say f*ck it! Ask her out, bro. But do it with conviction, otherwise this broad will walk all over your AFC ass.
 
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snowdog said:
Career counselor? You mean she's like your boss or something?
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Boss? No, I'm technically disabled (I consider ADD an overdiagnosed condition, but I'm capitalizing off of it) and getting some help doing a job search for college. Most of my counselors have been pretty old...

EDIT: Yeah, pretty sure I'm putting the brakes on this one (at least until we're done working). Read up on it and if it got out, it wouldn't be the best for her career. I'm a dog, but I'm not THAT much of a dog...
 
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Boss? No, I'm technically disabled (I consider ADD an overdiagnosed condition, but I'm capitalizing off of it) and getting some help doing a job search for college. Most of my counselors have been pretty old...

EDIT: Yeah, pretty sure I'm putting the brakes on this one (at least until we're done working). Read up on it and if it got out, it wouldn't be the best for her career. I'm a dog, but I'm not THAT much of a dog...
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Oh come on, bro! Dip it in!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's a career counselor, so she sees a lot of losers every day who tell and show her all their faults. She has a job. You clearly don't. Why would she even think about you outside of work? That said, you could charm her, if you have that personality.
 
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