"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My buddy claims he's gotten out of the "friend zone" 10 times

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ketostix said:
This is just more proof that guy doesn't know what he's talking about. If you are really in the friend zone, the more and longer you try to get out the deeper in the friend zone you get.
I personally wouldn't know much about the friendzone, because if I've ever been rejected in the past or a chick wasn't "puting out" for me, I simply ditched the b*tch by the second or third "hang out"(mostly the second). I never "hung" around or waited for her to "come around", hence I never knew if you could get out of it or not. I've always been one to never waste my time with women who showed no interest. But since coming here, I've always read that once you're in the friend zone, it's very rare you'll escape it..and I've always taken that as the consensus. Plus it makes sense. That's why when my buddy told me about his experience, it made it hard to believe. And it also makes sense that the more and longer you try to get out of it, the deeper in the friend zone you get. I've always thought the same exact thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Latinoman said:
And before you waste your time on that ONE woman...make sure you do a quick search on the term: Oneitis.
Thanks for the warning. Shortly after I posted that, I met a very sexy French girl who has totally distracted me from my original plan. :D Now I can't be fvcked with the LJBF conversion anymore.
 

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Latinoman said:
Edger...go get laid or move out of your parents house.
Guys, I live with my parents, because Latinoman say's I do.

Only reason I'm even responding to this and not ignoring it, is because I don't want others who've never read past posts of mine believing false things about me.
 

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edger said:
Guys, I live with my parents, because Latinoman say's I do.

Only reason I'm even responding to this and not ignoring it, is because I don't want others who've never read past posts of mine believing false things about me.
I stand corrected.
 
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