Dapper Swindler
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 25, 2004
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I've never broken up with anyone before and this is very hard for me. Not just because I don't want to hurt her feelings but because it's totally against my nature to push someone away who wants to be with me. It will suck when she's with other guys, but that's life and I can't have my cake and eat it too. Everything I wrote here is really how I feel, or at least a very positive spin on it. I'm going to take her out to lunch tomorrow and tell her this. Let me know if you have any ideas for modifying it.
There is something that I have to tell you.
I don't think it's fair to you if we continue this relationship the way it is.
I think you deserve more than I am giving you right now. I don't appreciate you like you deserve.
I love being with you, but it feels like I am just using you. I feel guilty all the time because I know you deserve someone who can appreciate you.
I want to be with you, but if I can't appreciate you then my conscience won't let me continue this any longer.
If we could be friends, then we could still see each other and I wouldn't feel guilty about it. Maybe someday I'll change but I don't want to lead you on.
The last thing I want is to not see you anymore. You're my best friend. I don't want to end our relationship, just change it.
I still made reservations for us tonight (for a comedy show). I'm really looking forward to going with you.
There is something that I have to tell you.
I don't think it's fair to you if we continue this relationship the way it is.
I think you deserve more than I am giving you right now. I don't appreciate you like you deserve.
I love being with you, but it feels like I am just using you. I feel guilty all the time because I know you deserve someone who can appreciate you.
I want to be with you, but if I can't appreciate you then my conscience won't let me continue this any longer.
If we could be friends, then we could still see each other and I wouldn't feel guilty about it. Maybe someday I'll change but I don't want to lead you on.
The last thing I want is to not see you anymore. You're my best friend. I don't want to end our relationship, just change it.
I still made reservations for us tonight (for a comedy show). I'm really looking forward to going with you.