My brain can't handle this stuff

[Life-Trainee]

They keyword is moderation. You can still do all those things, but you first need to prioritize! Find out what you want, outcome-based thinking. Take out a piece of paper and write down your goals. Assign reason/justification, prerequisites to each one and priority. See if anything not worth your time can be discarded from the list. From there , take baby steps. This site gives you tools and ideas to accomplish success with women and life, but it's up to you to determine what you want.

 

[ReT]

ELmac "Eliminate Computer games" omg, what you smoking? Isn't everything okay in Moderation? Atleast that's how I was told about things. I went from playing on the computer 24-7 to basically playing maybe 4 times a week at 2-3hrs each session.

 

[Bonhomme]

I was so badly conditioned I was hostile to the truth when it first became evident. But nonetheless realized that I was going down the wrong -- not to mention bloody unnatural -- path, and reclaimed my nuts, reconditioned myself, and never turned back.

Think of it as a liberation: the freedom to cut the crap and be real, without having to think of what is supposed to please the bloody bird, unless it pleases you, too.