"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"My boyfriend"

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decadentdestruction said:
I just had an experience were this chick would complaint about her ex to me , and tell me how much she hated him .
Allow me to translate that.
You're just a friend, and my ex is still f**kin' me daily.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Happened to me too, she mentioned him as she was referring to something she said to him earlier on the phone. The weird thing is, she hesitated for some reason, it sounded like "well I was just telling my... uh, boyfriend". I didn't show anything, but I was like wtf.
 

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Jack McCrack said:
As soon as the words "My boyfriend" come out of a girls mouth, I just turn around and walk away mid-sentence.

^^Same here homie......
 
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