"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My boyfriend dumped me 3 weeks ago?

angimark

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for spying and maiing his female friends,i loved him,and he called me saturday night crying that he missed me etc,but I ****** up.angry i told him to get lost i met someone new...i apologised next day, i mean he still calls me up and doesn't speak to hear my voice,and looks at my pics online.he just won't repy to my mai in 3 weeks i keep texting him like mad and can see he is online every day..do i give up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonGello

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Kid moved on, follow suit. (Unless you lost your virginity to him which causes ridiculous amounts of chemicals that make you feel in love with him, you should be able to get over him because you did not "love" him. Love = fake)

{Edit} : I forgot to add... Lolololol spying on him and talkig to his female friends, I would've dumped you without second though, stop being so over protective/clingy
 
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