my boss is concerned about his wife going on a trip with friends

[the_stig]

Gentlemen, Place your bets on her cheating or not in those 3 1/2 weeks.

Sure thing, if she hasn't already.

Nothing screams dying relationship louder than "suddenly acting single with old college friends, 3 1/2 weeks in the sex capital of the world, and backtracking on marriage goals". It's done.

 

[Stagger Lee]

i guess she's going for 3 1/2 weeks, different countries with 2 of her friends.

he told me she started acting different when she started hanging out with those women, i guess they are college friends from her old sorority, one is single, the other divorced, he said she wants to act like she is single again.

His first mistake was letting her hang out with friends, especially friends like that. Married women wouldn't have qualms with making an issue of her husband hanging out with old single friends. "Friends" will always try to break up a relationship or marriage.

 

[BeDJ]

If your boss is sharing you this much information on his personal life AND wanting you to make a decision for him...

Hmmmm


Anyways, we know nothing about asa_don's boss aside from third hand information. These assumptions are inaccurate without hard facts on the situation. OP is asking for input (which is incredibly stupid) if they were to be relayed to his boss, so this thread should be taken absolutely hypothetically for anyone's sake.

If the wife happens to cheat, it will come out eventually. Just let it happen and deal with it when it does. Don't count the eggs before they hatch and don't pine over the Christmas grinch. Be optimistic and look for good intentions in people for fvck's sake. I've been burned, you've been burned....and guess what? We have all been burned. It's always easy to look for the bad things. Easier to criticize. Easier to put down other people.

Let's all look at the positive side. Let's all look for the good in people. I sure as hell it outweighs the bad in most people. Let's keep our biases aside and give people the benefit of the doubt.

If the worst happens, she cheats on him, they get divorced and she gets the kids. So what? Life goes on and he will smarten up. Giving him any advice is planning for abortion when the chick is already knocked up. Ain't no use in crying over sh!t you can't control.

 

[asa_don]

If your boss is sharing you this much information on his personal life AND wanting you to make a decision for him...

Hmmmm


Anyways, we know nothing about asa_don's boss aside from third hand information. These assumptions are inaccurate without hard facts on the situation. OP is asking for input (which is incredibly stupid) if they were to be relayed to his boss, so this thread should be taken absolutely hypothetically for anyone's sake.

If the wife happens to cheat, it will come out eventually. Just let it happen and deal with it when it does. Don't count the eggs before they hatch and don't pine over the Christmas grinch. Be optimistic and look for good intentions in people for fvck's sake. I've been burned, you've been burned....and guess what? We have all been burned. It's always easy to look for the bad things. Easier to criticize. Easier to put down other people.

Let's all look at the positive side. Let's all look for the good in people. I sure as hell it outweighs the bad in most people. Let's keep our biases aside and give people the benefit of the doubt.

If the worst happens, she cheats on him, they get divorced and she gets the kids. So what? Life goes on and he will smarten up. Giving him any advice is planning for abortion when the chick is already knocked up. Ain't no use in crying over sh!t you can't control.

this is one of the most useless posts i ever read, congratulations.

i was at my boss' christmas party when him and his wife got into a big fight, i got there early, he told me not to tell anybody about it, i knew they were having problems because he told me, he also gave me extra vacation time when i needed time off to help a sick family member, he's concerned about it so he talked with me about what he should do, so as a favor i'm helping him out, this forum is for advice, thats what its for, he said he didnt want to make any bad decisions, he asked for my input which is not stupid, the guy could get screwed by his wife, i'm trying to help him out. when you don't know sh!t about anything you write crap like this :crackup: