My bootcamp

[Evolve]

Im bored and just getting over my one-itis. So im going to go throught the bootcamp to see if I have what it takes.

I would like to find someone who is willing to go through the bootcamp from start to finish around the same time as me. Anyone intrested in starting soon?

 

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Week #1

Just read all the articles in one sitting for this week. Not sure that was a good idea or not. May re-read them in a few days.

Ready for my two 1 hour eye contact trips and 50 "hi's".

I work a lot and train alot so fitting it all in before the weekend is going to be hard. But im going to take time out thurs night for my first trip, was thinking I could do it in the supermarket while im shopping for food. The another trip on the weekend.

I work in a large company so for the rest of the week im going to make eye contact with every one and say "hi". But im not going to count these as its a nearly all male enviroment. Just hope i don't get known as the "hi guy". :crazy:

 

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Day 2
Not done much today bootcamp wise. Worked long hours then went to the gym. Very exausted due to training.

5 sets of heavy squats, 4 bench press sets, 5 wide grip pull up sets and 5 deadlifts sets really takes it out of you! Going to be training like this 3 days a week for the next 7 weeks. Been thinkin about starting back training at my muay thai gym tues and thurs. If I do i'll be training hard every weeknight. So im going to have to use the free time I have to do bootcamp wisely!!!


Going to have an early night tonight so im fresh after work tomorrow. Hopfully I will have time to get out there and start my "50 hi's".

 

[Evolve]

Thought screw it im gonna start now.

Went to the supermarket to buy cat food, the supermarket was dead so never got that far. Getting people to hold eye contact is hard. Found that most people would not look me in the eye the few that did just glanced away after about a second. This did make me feel more confident tho.

Held eyecontact with a hot girl, I think she followed me right the way across the store to the herb isle. But I think her boyfreind turned up so mabye she never.

With everyone that actually gave me eye contact I 5 "hi's" in, pretty lame. Going to try again tomorrow. Talked to a girl working there that dropped a bag but only for a few seconds. Still not used to talking to random strangers.

Funny bit of my trip
I thought iv gotta get this talkin to strangers thing nailed even if its baby steps and talking to people that i do not feel threatened by. So I started to talk to the guy serving me at the till. Held eye contact the whole time, once he started talking he never shut up. He was actually getting nervous talking to me even started stuttering. I think he might have been gay and thought I was hitting on him.

All in all It was a mild succsess. Talked to two strangers for experiance and got about "5 hi's" off my list. Not going to included this in my eye contact exersise as I was not there long.

Don't know why i feel so threatened by girls at the moment. Like I used to be a skinny wimp but over the years turned myself into a fighing machine through weights and muay thai. Don't have a clue why im so intimidated by people who are about a foot shorter than me!


At least taking action his helping me get over this girl. She fell in love with me quick then as soon as I started to feel the same way about her she dropped me like a ginger step son. Been depressed and feeling sorry formyself since. Only way is up, so it can't be that bad.

 

[Evolve]

Oh yeah anyone got any experiance with this boot camp thing?


The main reason Im doing it is, iv been reading all sorts of stuff on the net about picking up women. I want to turn myself into a DJ. But I fell into the trap of being one of those lonely guys who lerks on sites like this in the background reading all these tips. But never actually having the balls to go out and see if it actually works. Thats why im trying bootcamp to force myself to go out and not to waste my best years just staring at a PC screen reading how to pick up women.