"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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robstar

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Alrighty men, I'mma do the DJ Boot Camp because it seems like fun, and I'm gonna keep you guys posted with the results!
Now I'm already fairly decent with girls, but I figure this will just improve me immensely anyway..
My aim for this boot camp is to hook up with at least 20 girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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j0n024

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lol well did you already start it or did you just post saying you were going to start? I would have thought you would have already had some FR material but guess not lol. Good Luck though.
 

robstar

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Well I've said hello to 58 people in the last 4 days and completed the eye contact exercise.. Week 2 starts tomorrow.
 

robstar

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Made 2-10 minute conversation with 17 strangers.
Week 3 starts tomorrow.. I'm gonna start posting in more detail.
 
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