"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hello soldiers! Alirght, alright, at ease gental men. I know that i am great, but iam also humble. :p as the title says this well be my journal for th BC. i well try to post daily results, and hopefully, i wont flake out since i well have an audience. Right now i got to go to a baseball game, but i well post more when i get back.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well i just got back from the school and gym. so my hi's well bethis evening. either way i got 4 so far.

Cliffs on my "love" life.

-never had sex
-never had oral
-never had a hand job
-never kissed
-never even held hands
-i grew up with only a mother and learned it was right to only like one girl at a time, and to like for how ever long it takes. Now i Finally found it isn't so.
-my real dad was a meth addict, and left me and my mom on th streets
-my mom met another man, and i was boarder line verbally abused for ten years by him.(good bye confidence)
-my dad is recovered, and i fully forgave him. For the record he is now the most caring person you well ever met.
-We finally moved away from my step dad, but he is still in my life. i forgave, but never will forget.
-my family is lower class. we only make 30,000 a year.
-my town has recently been devestated by a flood.
-i'am one of the smartest kids in my school.
- oh, and i love my mom


if you want more in depth details about anything in specific just ask.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Keep up the good work!
 

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nice dude, great job on taking ur life in order. I would say when u get in week 4 u will lose some of those nevers. Use this has some kind of experiment, like try say hello to people at like 10pm lol u will notice a change in replys by like 90% lol, change ur clothes see where u get more reactions.

Hoody + night + hello = not good lol

But just see what works for u. Try howdy, hi, hey mix it up.
 

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39/50.


one thing I've already noticed is that girls notice me more. must just be my attitude, and confident appearance. like some chick i barely ever talk to hug my friend, and then she hugged me. has been a very fun week. I think that next week sounds so INTENSE!
 

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alright passed week 1. things i experienced...
1. more social
2. had lots of fun
3. girls are noticing me for some reason


thats about the extent of it.






today was day 1 of week 2. gosh this week well be hard. i tried to talk to some adults down at the fishing docks, but i quived. i think i well mostly stay with my peer group for now.



0/10:eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i still cant manage to talk to strangers, just some sort of block. i also live in a small town so i know just about everyone. advice?
 

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danny987 said:
i still cant manage to talk to strangers, just some sort of block. i also live in a small town so i know just about everyone. advice?
I had a hard time with it for a while. Then I started saying hello to everyone at work and used their name each time. I'm not sure why but smiling and saying Hi, NAME how's it going? made it a lot easier to start saying hi to strangers.

It got me comfortable enough to start talking to strangers and I noticed that it also increased my popularity at work a lot. I have lots of random conversations at work now.
 
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