"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Boot Camp Diary

soontobesuave

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OK, here we go - first post. I have been reading the DJ Bible for the last couple of weeks and have decided to go for it and jump in two footed. I am your typical AFC with very limited success with women but all that's gonna change. I'm gonna log my boot camp experiences here for both my benefit and hopefully for other's too.

A few things about me:

I AM AN AFC. I ADMIT IT, BUT THAT'S GONNA CHANGE.
I'm 24 and live in the UK.
Up to now the woman's always been on the pedestal.
I am the nice guy that women open their heart up to.
I read on this site that people who are quite intelligent over analyse things and end up ****ing things up. That is me to a tee so bear with me!
I'm not starting at the absolute beginning - even I knew that this was doomed from the start!

I read somewhere that it's best to start each week of the boot camp on a Thursday, to give you the weekend to put each week's exercises into action so I'll be reading up tomorrow and getting down to action in a couple of days with week 1.

As much constructive critisism as possible please....

I'll keep you posted.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dapper Swindler

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We used to have a lot of bootcamp journals here and people complained about them. They might even be against the rules now.

My suggestion is that we keep bootcamp journals offline until week 4 (if anyone makes it that far). Then upload everything into one post and look for responses.

Either way, good luck with the bootcamp!
 

soontobesuave

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sorry didnt realise. didnt see anything about that but makes sense as i suppose most people don't make it that far. or they make it so far and give up thinking they've cracked it with all their new found confidence.

makes sense not posting till week 4. i'll be back :D
 

Swoop

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Actually post your field experience in the Bootcamp threads already flooding around. Bookcamp Week #1 is sticky at the top of the forum. The others you can do a search for them to and add it on there. Good luck!
 
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