"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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soontobesuave

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OK, here we go - first post. I have been reading the DJ Bible for the last couple of weeks and have decided to go for it and jump in two footed. I am your typical AFC with very limited success with women but all that's gonna change. I'm gonna log my boot camp experiences here for both my benefit and hopefully for other's too.

A few things about me:

I AM AN AFC. I ADMIT IT, BUT THAT'S GONNA CHANGE.
I'm 24 and live in the UK.
Up to now the woman's always been on the pedestal.
I am the nice guy that women open their heart up to.
I read on this site that people who are quite intelligent over analyse things and end up ****ing things up. That is me to a tee so bear with me!
I'm not starting at the absolute beginning - even I knew that this was doomed from the start!

I read somewhere that it's best to start each week of the boot camp on a Thursday, to give you the weekend to put each week's exercises into action so I'll be reading up tomorrow and getting down to action in a couple of days with week 1.

As much constructive critisism as possible please....

I'll keep you posted.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We used to have a lot of bootcamp journals here and people complained about them. They might even be against the rules now.

My suggestion is that we keep bootcamp journals offline until week 4 (if anyone makes it that far). Then upload everything into one post and look for responses.

Either way, good luck with the bootcamp!
 
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soontobesuave

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sorry didnt realise. didnt see anything about that but makes sense as i suppose most people don't make it that far. or they make it so far and give up thinking they've cracked it with all their new found confidence.

makes sense not posting till week 4. i'll be back :D
 
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Actually post your field experience in the Bootcamp threads already flooding around. Bookcamp Week #1 is sticky at the top of the forum. The others you can do a search for them to and add it on there. Good luck!
 
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