My blind date options?

[Omen]

So i'm doing this blind date tonight and a friend set it up, and since he has a smokin wife i'm sure her friend is ok as well. By what I can tell just by a few tips I get that.

Anyway... I have a few questions.

Since my buddy said she wanted me to have her number and txt her a few times before we met just to initiate contact, I did to just get a feel of a few things she likes.

Now here are my questions...

1. Say the date goes well (its a double date) since I already have a number what do I say at the end? Just a simple... So how about we get together just you and me?

2. If she doesn't like me... Then no worries. (her loss)

3. If she is a fugly one by odd chance and i'm just like What's the best thing to say after its all said and done especially if she thinks another date is possible?

Cause if you say you had a decent time she'll think you had fun with her. So how do you say NO without sounding like its a real no?

4. Just cause we have a good time, how am I supposed to tell if she is interested? Just monitor her words, body language, etc etc?

It might be different if I had known her or seen her, but since i'm going into this like going into a dark cave I dont know what to expect.

Any tips?

 

[ViciousDADogg]

Loosen up. Take her a place you want to go whether she comes or not. Have fun. Take it one step further than you think you can. (try to touch her tittie or something). Make the girl flattered.

If things go well ditch the other couple and retire to your place for a funny movie.


Go there assuming she's hot and you will have sex with her. If she's not hot, practice loving different types of women. Have great time, and have fun with her lack of confidence, same attitude, like you know you going to fvck her.

 

[Interceptor]

1. If you had a good time, tell her. If you are having a good time, you will notice both of you doing a lot of touching, hugging, and closeness. There shoudl be some degree of intimacy between you two when there's real chemistry. If there IS real chemistry, then kissing her goodnight will feel comfortable. If not, maybe there was not ebnough rapport, kino, and maybe she was just not that into you.
If you want to see her again, just tell her. Simple. But .....ONLY if you DID have a good time. If not, say "Nice meeting you. Have a good evening." That's it.
Don't reward bad behavior. And don't compliment things you don't like.
Stay true to yourself. Are you happy? DID you have fun? DID you like her?

2. Correct.


3. Ugly girl, but NICE to you: "It was nice meeting you. Thank you for being so gracious tonight. I hope you had a good time. Good bye, and take care."
You are being nice, but not leading her on. You are showing class, and good manners. You are not to hurt her ego, and her feelings. You are not to "Reject" her. You simply do NOT hint at any further interaction between you two. However!!! If she' s interested in you... a bit of a challenge. You have to be nice, but make it obvious you are not into her. Be kind. Especially if she had good manners and was gracious enough to you. This I leave up to you.
Generally, a "You're very nice and sweet. I think you'll make a man very happy. Thank you for asking." may do fine.

Ugly girl and mean to you: "Have a good night" That's it. No compliments at all. DO NOT say "Nice meeting you."

4. You have to assume she's interested. The other way is AFC!!! Do not do this. Assume she's interested and you are the Prize. Any other thinking is NOT going to be helpful to you. Avoid that"Does she like me??" mindset at all costs!! YOU are the Prize. You KNOW she's interested. Now it's a matter of how badly do you want her. Escalation is your answer. You escalate physically, or situation/envionment.
That being said, look at her body language:
Triangulation. Maintained eye contact, and scanning your face.
Playing with her hair.
Body is angled towards yours.
Smiling at you every time you make eye contact.
Light touching on your forearms, thighs, hands.
Proximity, closeness of your bodies.
She may hug, she may put her head on your shoulder, she may grab your arm, and she may hold your hand. These are stronger more overt displays, if she does these, this is freakin' good!!!
General perception that she thinks you're interesting, funny, and she pays attention to what you say.
Ask things about yourself.
Compliments you on your skin, teeth, dress, body etc.



General Tips:

Chivalry is good. Open doors, pull out chairs, take her coat, yada yada. But don;t be a dork , and pretend you're in "Medieval World". Make sure you keep your composure. She needs to feel you're used to doing this for women. DOn't make it a Chivalry exhibition, so make it natural or she'll feel awkard and think it's unnatural.
Give her one or two compliments. Her hair, makeup, outfit. Don't be overly complimentary. If the mood feels right do NOT be afraid of saying something like "You have sexy legs. Your shoes really make your calves stand out. Do you like to dance a lot?" Something to that effect. Make it a little sexy, but not brutish.
Reward when she gives you something of value. EX: She compliments you , you touch her. She touches you , you hug her. She touches you again and compliments you, you give her a kiss on the cheek. Escalate, and reward good behavior.
Check to see the sexuality level within your interaction. If it's alright, inject a little risque humor , and double entendre in your interactions. This works well when you really feel her attention and interest. You need to use that energy and demonstrate sexuality. Very, very important.
MAINTAIN YOUR INTEGRITY AND YOUR OPINIONS. She may do the following:

Her: "What do you think of XYZ and So and So?"

Omen: "I like them!! They're awesome!!!"

Her: (with a look of disgust) "Ugh! I hate them. I can't believe anyone could like that!"

Omen: (worried, and panicking) "Uh...uh....yeah, you're right. They do suck. I never really liked them."

Her: (thinking to herself) "Mmmhmm." "What a chump."

Keep your identity, and be true to yourself. Don't settle for second best, don't accept bad behavior.

Good luck.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Interceptor, your title under your handle should not read Senior Don Juan, it should officially be "Dating God". I think you covered all bases.

Omen, this is just like a first meeting/intro, don't push things too much it comes off as trying to hard. This is really like a pre-date, that way you can make plans to get together again if there is chemistry. All this is, is your/her friends (the other couple) trying to match you guys, but making her feel comfortable first.

If there is chemistry, where it is obvious, the other couple will give you plenty of time to talk and spend time to get to know each other. If she's not into you, expect her (your date) latchin' on to the other couple and act as if its a group thing. No big deal.


1. If there is obvious chemistry between both of you, you will both know. Mention stuff like, "Hey, you and I have a good vibe going", "we are really connecting", "you seem like you have this great energy to you", girls love that type of stuff, that kind of language, then move on to the "We need to get together again", and wait for her response. Not just what she says, but her body languagel. By then you'll know her answer, what she means by it and if she's really interested.

2. Be polite, no need to burn bridges. Plus remember, if you are polite and carry yourself well, you'll still get hooked up with hoties in the future by your friends.

3. Politely say, "It was nice meeting you."

4. Back to what I said about vibing. Women want an "experience", no matter how casual it is, they are in search of a connection. Her body language will tell you how much she is into you. Don't be so much in your head. The fact that you are worrying about what to do says you're overanlayzing. If you get to this point, you are doing good and you'll know what to say.

What to say is, again, comment about how you two match up, "connect", "have a good vibe", "have good chemistry", etc. If she feels the same way, she will lighten up and make it obvious. Then you tell her, don't ask her, that you need to get together again. "You and I need to get together soon."

 

[Omen]

Thanks for all the advice. Well, it is over and the double date is done.

She was a pretty girl, so that wasn't a problem. Dinner went ok, then we went back to play a game with the other couple, and had thought maybe bowling, but I think the mood was wrong and the game was dull, people got tired and that was it. I was hoping for a more exciting thing after dinner so there was energy. She was the first to leave cause she was tired cause it was a long week, she just got back from traveling, went to a wedding, so rough few days.

Not too much out of her the whole night. she did smile, laugh and that sort of thing, but I had NO time to just talk to her, so I am going to initiate a me/her date instead of a couples thing again. We talked about doing something else more fun next time, and she agreed, so its not like she said no, but I dont want to keep doing this... 4 people deal cause I dont get to talk to her one on one and that's what I want to do.

Not upset or anything, but the date just wasnt as exciting as it could have been.

Anyway i'm not waiting for everyone to set up a night again for all 4 of us. Instead I'M initiating a me/you cause i'm not into screwing around or waiting.

As said...I'M the prize to be won, and there are many people who play many hands to win the prize, and if she doesn't play her cards right, other women will. I have lots to offer, and its not my loss.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Great job man. You see, if you had come back and told me she was an HB10+ professional model, I would have been jealous. If you really want to make me jealous, tell me you just took her on your yacht after you made your last $2 million bones.

 

[Omen]

Great job man. You see, if you had come back and told me she was an HB10+ professional model, I would have been jealous. If you really want to make me jealous, tell me you just took her on your yacht after you made your last $2 million bones.

lol. Not likely with the lack of water where I live. Where the hell you think we are taking a Yacht? Oh we'll take the private jet to FL and take it out there.

Oh Omen... I love you. lol

But if it doesn't work.... As once said... girls come and go, and dont get caught up on one when there are many more you can have.