Originally posted by LikRetsam
The question was, for the last 3 posters, not what he could do but rather how to go aobut letting them know NOT to think they wern't invited to something that didn't happen.
The correct answer was to just tell them.
lol, i read the question, but i think thats a lame way out. Thats what i was like when i had no confidence, i was really scared that no one would come or anything (and even when my rents forced me to have one {in a hall} and a hell of a lotta people turned up and i got kudos, this is when i was younger). I was still bare scared of having parties. The correct answer as you say was tell them, but its the correct answer to the wrong question.
If you go around telling people i would invite you but i dont have a party thats sounds lame. He should mark his birthday in some way anyway, even by asking to hold an all nighter at a m8s house (one who u know is lax). + if someone said that i was invited to something that didnt happen id be very suspicious and like wtf. The worst is when my close friend had a theatre party and couldnt invite me (numbers, i think?, mayb hes just an ars3hole) and didnt tell me anything. I knew as the rest of my m8s assumed i was coming and so asked me how i was getting there etc. I would rather he had explained as i know he knows i know, its just gay.
Anyway do something, anything, even as simple as just going out at lunch with them, plus u can always get presents.
btw: Lik you cant count
