"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My birthday - using it to finally make a move!

JayUK

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Its my birthday tomorrow (24th) an Img na see this gurl i really like in school, shes real hot, an cute aswell, an Ive bin strugllin to make a move! Ive jus bin smilin to her, thangs like that, an a little talk, but not much else.
So after form tomrorow Im thinkin bout maybe pullin somethin on my birrrthday! Make or break, like a 'can i hav a hug for my birthday' haha an then jus bang one on her! Like sweep her off her feet, or I could pull off a real cheesy line such as 'ive realised as its my birthday, I aint gettin any younger, an realise I have to take more chances......' I aint sure, but I wna try somethin?!
thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taviii

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Man you gotta use your birthday to the maximum!

You will probably have all the attention, so everybody will want to talk to you. Make sure that after you make a move on her you get away for some time (this works best if she sees you dancing or flirting with other girls after you got her initial attention when you talked).

Thats the key! Two steps forward one step back!

Then dance a little bit with her and get away again saying something like: "I gotta go get another beer, see you a later!"

I hope you understand what I am trying to say here!

When you think she is ready for the next step isolate her! Then you can go for the kiss and after that for sex!

You will probably drink something because its your birthday and you will be a lot more confident because of that.

Dont try to get her drunk! Let her choose how much she drinks, or this can come like a boomerang against you.

Happy Birthday! :D
 

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Yeah but I aitn gna see her in a club or anythin, its jus goin to be in school?! Shes in my form u see, so i gta get her when she leaves form an then say somethin to her lol, cus she hangas wit all these lads who r gay, she aint gna be the perfect person to approach, so im gna hav to be like 'hey come over here' then i need to say somethin awesome, but i think the 'can i have a birthday kiss' is kinda lame, but i dnooo?! I really like her!
 

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Well if I dont have a big party for my birthday then at least I go with my friends to a club and give them some beers. If you do this then tell her to see you at the disco or somethin, and proceed like I said above.

If not then tell her you want to say something to her when shes with the "friends" and when you are alone with her tell her that its your birthday, make some chit chat (if you cant think of something to talk about then talk about your BIRTHDAY). Say you gotta go after you talk for few minutes and ask for her number.
 

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girls who hang with gay dudes are difficult
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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