"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I stopped caring for girls, and instead caring for yourself and thus improving really has helped me alot.

But whenever I get some signals from a girl whose looks (not character as I don't know them) I like, and if I decide to give it a shot, and it works out or I get some confirmation she's interested. Then I get emotionally invested. I start to wonder about stupid sh*t. It is my weakest point.

It's like I can only block this out if I'm superbusy with my goals and reaching them. I keep telling myself this and focus on my stuff and it works but my mind starts to wonder off to the girl.

So, I can block it out to some extent but I want to be able to completely be independent because I know I do not need a woman I do not even know yet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just keep doing whatever you do buddy. Let them invest to you! Just show your intention but not chase! Control your emotions even your mind is ****ed up! And then wait for the window of opportunity when theyre weak to you. Then you know what to do...

Game is hard to play. The eaisest way to win it is NOT TO PLAY!
 
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astrn said:
Just keep doing whatever you do buddy. Let them invest to you! Just show your intention but not chase! Control your emotions even your mind is ****ed up! And then wait for the window of opportunity when theyre weak to you. Then you know what to do...

Game is hard to play. The eaisest way to win it is NOT TO PLAY!
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I hear ya, thanks !
 
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