my biggest weakness

[xstarclassicx]

So here is my biggest weakness that i cannot seem to get by. Not to sound conceited but i am an absolute lady killer..... but i have my faults like everyone else does. I can smooth talk lots of girls and feed them filler until they fall in love with me. Solid love, not the friendship kind. Here is where the problem comes in......

When i talk to girls this much inevtiably i develop feelings for them, once i develop feelings for them i basically lose interest sexually, and this is the point when they are throwing their bodies at me. Once i get a tid bit of respect for them i dont want to have anything to do with them sexually.

The funny thing is girls are basically the exact opposite from me.....

So i always have them ready and willing when i am not ready and not willing.

This may be a problem of self worth but not so much so. I am perfectly fine hooking up with girls i have no respect for.....in fact those are the only girls i ever hook up with.

 

[Rebound Material]

I gotta admit that I have or still has this problem. Its like, I want to have feeling s for this chick, but once I do, I gotta sacrafice my sexual desire for them. IT SUCKS. Thats why nowadays, as much as it sucks, in my head, I dont respect chicks for sh!t...

 

[Faca]

The same problem here!

The girls i don't have feelings for i have a strong sexual desire, and mostly i get those girls.. but the girls i have feelings for, the sexual desire goes away.
And with them i keep fvcking up things.

I think it has something to do how you see yourself, you sexual ego...

This can be the result of the last decades, how the male brain has been castrated.. Ever seen a guy in those old movies (60s-70s) having this problem!

 

[Nasman]

You know what I am kind of the same way. There are some girls that I don't care for and I just can't wait to have animal sex with, but the ones I care about I want to be the nice guy and respect them? go figure

 

[yoimjamie]

could be that deep down you're thinking of sex as an act of disrespect. you need to get rid of that, if so.

 

[Faca]

have been thinking about this and it might be just bad programming on your mind!

Go figure out, what was you first sexual experience? Like most of the guys, it was masturbation on porn.. and you were afraid that somebody might catch you in the act.. and in some way you felt ashamed of doing it. Maybe because how the women in our society look upon this.

But this has left a scar in our mindset about sex, and we can only link this with the dirty masturbation and the guilty feelings. And our problem is linking sex with the act of showing you love towards the women.

Anyone other thoughts on this?

This is what i can make of it.. dont want this to sound yet another post about not masturbating.. but this might be the real issue here guys...