“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My biggest problem

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Making the first move. I can never find the place or when the right time is to hook up or kiss the girl, i can make kino, but when comes to kissing or making out, i dont know when to, or how to make it happen, I know the phrase Just Do It, but if i do it in the wrong time its awkward
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't worry about it. Just think of sex as extended Kino. It really could be, right? Sex is just a great massage. Think of it this way, then it won't seem like such an uphill battle for you. When we end up making things larger than life, then we have already lost. Nothing should be or appear larger than life and outside your boundries.

Don't try so hard either, there is always a moment.

Here is a tip: When she looking at your lips, and then back at your eyes, and then your lips again, she wants you to kiss her!! Out of experience, i can say with nearly 100% certainity, this is the best sign there is.
 

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It doesn't matter if it's awkward, sometimes you really need to just do it. The other option is to get strung along on a bunch of dates and never really know if she's into you before getting LJBF'd. In fact you should be creating opportunities to kiss her, don't wait for them! If it is awkward then you can say something like "that was good but with some more practice you could be a great kisser!", then make out with her.
 

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Thanks man, i guess i just gotta just do it, and be confident. Aight ill be ready
 

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As you're walking....

Put your arm around her neck(keep walking)...bring her close and kiss her under her jaw like...around the cheek. (Pay attention to her reaction to nigga....you'll need this information for the future LOL)

If you cant do that then...I don't know. The key is to prepare her for something like this. If you don't feel she's prepared then of course you'll never feel right doing it. She's got to know you're that type of dude and things will fall into place easy.

JUST DO IT.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actually, this is a difficult task - we don't want it to seem forced - it should be a natural development. So it is about "timing"!

A progression should develop - meaning if you are 20 feet away you shouldn't just run to her and pounce - this is out of place and unexpected!! :rolleyes:

The key is gradual escalation!!

Make sure she is in a light mood and acceptable to intimate contact, in other words, friendly to your advances!
 

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Oh. Aight. My bad OG MDJ ;)

I'm bad at forcing things. When my other head gets in the drivers seat it's all over LOL.
 
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