my biggest obstacle with dating

[PRMoon]

Having a bunch of friends won't really do much for your social status. Being known and revered by the masses will do you wonders. Are there one or two people at your job you are remotely interested in spending some time outside of work with? If so I'd start there. You can meet people very easily through co works who might invite you to a party or to some other social engagements and from there meet more people. It's a down hill effect and you can meet quite a few people this way.

Also, learn how to meet people in any venue. The grocery store, the book store, the mall. This site is littered with tips and tricks with which you can meet people at any venue. At your present state you're not a social person but when you've learned to put yourself out there as a regular practice, you'll quickly become a social monster and in turn most of the places you go people will know you. That's way better then having a bunch of friends following you around because knowing people in places pays off AND it's low maintenance.

 

[oscarxp25]

A social group has a lot to do with all of this. All through high school and college, I never had a group of friends I could call my own. Sure, I hung out with some great guys, but I always felt like an outsider/spectator.

After college, I started talking to this kid I didn't really hang out with since we were young. Fast forward five years later and I am good friends with the guy and his group of friends. They are my support system for not only girls, but life. My social life has gotten better and I have become outgoing. It takes a while to find a group you click with, but when you do, it will all make sense.