"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PRMoon

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Having a bunch of friends won't really do much for your social status. Being known and revered by the masses will do you wonders. Are there one or two people at your job you are remotely interested in spending some time outside of work with? If so I'd start there. You can meet people very easily through co works who might invite you to a party or to some other social engagements and from there meet more people. It's a down hill effect and you can meet quite a few people this way.

Also, learn how to meet people in any venue. The grocery store, the book store, the mall. This site is littered with tips and tricks with which you can meet people at any venue. At your present state you're not a social person but when you've learned to put yourself out there as a regular practice, you'll quickly become a social monster and in turn most of the places you go people will know you. That's way better then having a bunch of friends following you around because knowing people in places pays off AND it's low maintenance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A social group has a lot to do with all of this. All through high school and college, I never had a group of friends I could call my own. Sure, I hung out with some great guys, but I always felt like an outsider/spectator.

After college, I started talking to this kid I didn't really hang out with since we were young. Fast forward five years later and I am good friends with the guy and his group of friends. They are my support system for not only girls, but life. My social life has gotten better and I have become outgoing. It takes a while to find a group you click with, but when you do, it will all make sense.
 
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