"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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My Biggest Decision Ever

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Hey guys, since we last talked I was able to find a pretty decent girl and Ive now lost my virginity and everything is great. Theres only one problem. Im still a senior in highschool and theres a lot of girls that like me and some are much cuter than my gf. Im not sure if I should play it safe and stay with her or go for the gold! hit me back with ur advice....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best friends? NAY

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Just driving I bet you make atlest 5 decisions that are WAY more important then this one. (you'r life is at stake driving)

Go for it bro, if it doesn't work out with the super hotties you can always go back down to just normal hotties :D .
 

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Stick with your girlfriend.

Provided things are going well between the two of you, why break it up?

You'll have plenty of opportunities in your lifetime to mack it with super hot mama's if you're a true DJ.
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Stick with your girlfriend.

Provided things are going well between the two of you, why break it up?

You'll have plenty of opportunities in your lifetime to mack it with super hot mama's if you're a true DJ.
I like this advice. If something is great, why alter it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It depends who you want, do you want those other girls morethan your gf. Go for which one you want more, dont stay stuck in a rut if that is not what you want.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
I like this advice. If something is great, why alter it?
He said in his post that he could get better which would you prefer great or greater? Don't settle for less than you deserve because that is AFC thinking. Go out there and get a better girlfriend man:D . Hope I helped.
 

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You should never settle for less, as you can always do better.. thats one fo my mottos.
You're goind to be senior this year? Then i'd stay with the girlfriend, but befriend all the other chicks. If somethign happens, you have girls all over your single-self.
If you and her are together until Christmas break, and you still feel you could do better, I'd brekaup with her.
Last 6 months of senior year. Get as much ***** as possible. :)
 

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I'd stick with the girlfriend for a lot of reasons...

Think about it this way. If you're with your gf, all the other girls that you want to get with will want you a lot more because you're NOT available. If things don't work out with the gf, then of course, go for the other chicks. You know what you want. Stop kidding yourself and make the decision.


I assure you this isn't going to be the most important decision of your life. Don't stress over it. Good luck man
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dukester

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fyi bud, this is not your most imp decision ever.

choosing a college, buying a car, buying/renting a house, marriage, finding a job

those are at least 5 more important decisions that are wayyyyy more imp than n e girl

stop overanalyzing things, and just go 4 it w/ all the girls you can- you're supposed to date around in hs, and x plore options, not be glued to some clingly immature chick
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I'd stick with the girlfriend for a lot of reasons...

If you're with your gf, all the other girls that you want to get with will want you a lot more because you're NOT available.
Yeah but it only takes a certain amount of attraction to get girls. Besides you should not stay with what you don't want for anyone else. If you upgrade to a better girlfriend then the girls will still start to get more attracted and you'll have a better girlfriend. Make every decision about your emotions and your well being not anyone elses. It would make girls attracted to you more but if they are already attracted then it would not make much differance.
 

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If your happy then stay with her. If your not happy leave her. Not that tough. Be happy.
 

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Relationship is good? Keep it if you're having fun.

If it ain't broke don't fix it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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