"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My beginning towards the end.

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Originally posted by JonJack
Instead try starting discussions about things that you care with people you meet face to face.
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You would be surprised as to how hard I have tried. All my life man! you brought a tear to my eye, with that statement. I can't even comment on the rest of the stuff yet, except for "thanks I'll get to that later".

My father, has no friends, I don't know why, and I can't ask him in any way that has been able to answer the stupid questions I been asking him. I am asking you guys what I think are the simplest questions in my mind, I am confused, so thats why I am here. I am also scared in public, I protect myself, from others.

I do have a life though, I am not lacking in friends, or people that would like to be my friends. I talk to everybody, about anything. I talk to doormen, heart to heart. I talk to the cabbies on my way to the store. I pick up coworkers in the morning and speak with them about eachothers lives, tomorrow after my buddy finishes his line in doc, he's going to help me out to get my pilots licence:D. I talk to friends about their dying grandmothers. Others about how they aren't allowed at home anymore because they drink too much.

I talk petty things on this site, about seduction, I need to speak in your guys terms. I also need to appear helpless, so I can get help. If I came off all-knowing, and ****y. I wouldn't get any of the help I desired, I am trying to connect with you guys, in the only way I know how.

Thanks for saying that man, it means a lot to me now that I have told those things to myself. It really means a lot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"necessity is the mother of invention"
 
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Wow, sazuki, you give me one helluva christmas present with your body language post. I've noticed so much since than, simple changes, make such a profound difference. I'm finally getting into sports, and throing in excitable BL, REALLY makes a difference to the girls around you, when the previous second you didn't flinch when the big guy got slammed into the wall beside you by his friends. Funny ****:D

Now this... I'm going to have to make a few notes on this and get back to you man.
 
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