"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My beginning towards the end.

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Originally posted by JonJack
Instead try starting discussions about things that you care with people you meet face to face.
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You would be surprised as to how hard I have tried. All my life man! you brought a tear to my eye, with that statement. I can't even comment on the rest of the stuff yet, except for "thanks I'll get to that later".

My father, has no friends, I don't know why, and I can't ask him in any way that has been able to answer the stupid questions I been asking him. I am asking you guys what I think are the simplest questions in my mind, I am confused, so thats why I am here. I am also scared in public, I protect myself, from others.

I do have a life though, I am not lacking in friends, or people that would like to be my friends. I talk to everybody, about anything. I talk to doormen, heart to heart. I talk to the cabbies on my way to the store. I pick up coworkers in the morning and speak with them about eachothers lives, tomorrow after my buddy finishes his line in doc, he's going to help me out to get my pilots licence:D. I talk to friends about their dying grandmothers. Others about how they aren't allowed at home anymore because they drink too much.

I talk petty things on this site, about seduction, I need to speak in your guys terms. I also need to appear helpless, so I can get help. If I came off all-knowing, and ****y. I wouldn't get any of the help I desired, I am trying to connect with you guys, in the only way I know how.

Thanks for saying that man, it means a lot to me now that I have told those things to myself. It really means a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"necessity is the mother of invention"
 
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Wow, sazuki, you give me one helluva christmas present with your body language post. I've noticed so much since than, simple changes, make such a profound difference. I'm finally getting into sports, and throing in excitable BL, REALLY makes a difference to the girls around you, when the previous second you didn't flinch when the big guy got slammed into the wall beside you by his friends. Funny ****:D

Now this... I'm going to have to make a few notes on this and get back to you man.
 
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