"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Arrival

Mister Royale

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What's going on, fellow Don Juaners? This is my second time introducing myself. My first being the unknown troubles1902, and I thought it was time for a rebirth of both my on and offline persona.

About Me: I'm a South Georgian Senior (in High School). At 16 years old I decided it was time to lose the AFC in me. To stop giving a sh*t what girls thought of me, and make myself happy.
I would literally go out of my way to make other men around me happy, and feel comfortable. Even going so far as to change my personality. I'd become their lil' punching bag just to be around them, so you already know the situation w/ girls.
Anyhoo, I became tired of becoming totally different people just to appease to someone. Now it's all about numero uno, I could care less whether you are comfortable or not round me.

When my mom starts her bullsh*t, I get the hell outta dodge, cause I don't need her bringing down my vibe.

To end this, hello to all DJ's, I hope to have a good time chasing all the HB's out there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Welcome Mister Royale. Its nice to meet you. By the way, what does AFC mean?
 

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Originally posted by Mister Royale

When my mom starts her bullsh*t, I get the hell outta dodge, cause I don't need her bringing down my vibe.
makes me wonder how successful you're going to be?

but good luck all the same.
 
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