"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My approches journal

Hurrican

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I had done some approches before without thinking about it before I came here. So these are not my first approches. But they are all still below 10 approches.


About me:

I usually walk around with expensive armenian exchange clothes (to stand out and look good) and $200 Kennith Cole dress shoes. Ever since I started wearing this style, I get more looks and attention from girls and guys.... lol I try to walk with confidence and my back striaght.

I am almost 20. Height: 5' 11 175lbs muscular build. Mexican. and live in Texas. White teeth and big noised.


If I ever plan to "sarge", I wear the cleanest clothes I got and put colonge on and shower before, brush teeth again, ect.

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I went to my community college with the intent to pick up girls. I walked around giving eye contact to all girls and smiled. Most cute girls don't even make eye contact with me or maybe even other boys anymore since it will always end up in confrintation.

I saw a old friend and started talking to him for 30 minutes. As we where walking, I saw 2 mexican girls pass by. I just made great eye contact with one of them and so did she. But me being a newbie and always paying attention to my friends first. I did not approch her.

Later my friend left and I started to look for girls that are either sitting down alone or giving me eye contact. (so rare)

I walked out of a campus store and came face to face with this hot girl and I said hi, she said hi and we went out seperate ways:(

I walked past this girl sitting down alone and as I got close she looked up and I said hi and she gave me a weak hi back as I was passing her. I thought this was low interest since it took her a while to reply and her voice was weak. By the time she said hi I had already had my back to her so I kept on going.

****I met a african ex-classmate and started talking to him. He pointed at 2 girls in front of us and said they are find ass arabians. They sat down and as I walked past them with my friend I got close to them and gave EC, they looked up and I said "Where are you from?" They both replied with Jordan.

Me) I am from Iran
HB7s) Really, so do u speak persian.
Me) yeah a little bit, what do you speak
hos) arabic
Me) Oh...yeah I know your friends. (named some jordanian guy I know)
hos) oh ok.

***African friend talks and tries too hard to score asking lame questions and *******

Me) I don't like arabs and I think they are stupid. Made some funny remarks about arabs being loud conducting flea market businesses.
hos) laughing, OMG how can u say u hate arabs.
Me) I didn't say I hate arabs, I said they are stupid.
Hos) laughing, OMG that is worse

I continued talking to them for 10 more minutes. I made them laugh a lot but they thought I was immature. I will type highlights of the convo below:

Me) How old are you girls?
Hos) How old do u think we are?
Me) You 19,20 and you 20,21
Hos) correct
Me) How old do u think I am?
Hos) By the way you act or your real age?
*we all laugh and then I say by the way I act.
Hos) 11
All laugh. lol

Then I did a fukin stupid thing to **** block myself. What a fukin retard I was when I did this: A guy was walking down the hallway and I noticed that the girls where looking at him all interesting and whispering to each other.
So as he gets close to me, I say...."Hey, these girls like you" and he joins our circle and doesn't leave. He seemed cool but what a retard I was. You guys better flame me for this.
(Later I found out that he had walked past them before we meet the girls and they had a interest in him because he looked *cute*)

So now all 5 of us our talking and the new guy talks about how bad ass he is by speeding. ect. lol. Then I joke around with everyone more and then the girls jokingly told me to leave. I pretended I was about to leave but stopped and chilled for a few more minutes. But the attention had drifted to the new guy and I knew there was a very low chance that I will get their numbers so I said I gotta go to the gym and left. African friend stays behind and tries to salvage it.

10 minutes later I come back and I noticed that the younger girl was gone with the new guy and my african friend was still trying to hit on the other one. I stopped for a while talked to him and asked where the other girl was and then left.

Lesson leaned: don't ****block yourself and don't be too ****y or offend the girls. I think I might have offended them a bit. not sure.

One of the girls said she is going to Jordan over the summer and the other one is gonna come to summer school. I might see her again.

I asked the girls what exciting things they do but the convo failed since they did not do ****.

******
As I was leaving the building, I kinda looked pissed and this girl follows me exiting the building. I opened the door for her and she starts walking next to me. I had gotten a campus ticket for parking in the teacher zone so I used that as an opened.

Me) How much are tickets here? (Pulling out the ticket)

I did not get a good look on the girl. She looked cute but I did not even look at her or gave her eye contact. I thought about this later. I was looking at the ticket. So I am guessing she is HB6.

HB6) idk, maybe $80. Why did u get one.

We talked for one minute as we where walking to the parking lot. I got her to laugh and she seemed interested. No kino or eye contact. I am a ****in looser. THEN all of a sudden an old friend pulls up (I don't really like him since he flaked on me once) and it took my attention away from the girl and I said see u later and went to my ho friend to talk to him. I fuked up. Could have gotten her number.

Lesson learned: Don't get distracted. **** everyone else.

I will type more in a few minutes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mission

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You refer to the girls in the first situation as "hos". That is a bad attitude to have towards them, if you think about girls as "hos" or "sluts" you are going to have a hard time getting any because that impression is made on them whether you say it or not.

--Mission
 

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I went to the mall after the college sarging and tried to look for girls to hit on.

Out of screening out the fat girls, the underaged girls, the girls without boyfriends, and the older woman. There are a few girls left to approch. But I never approched without getting return EC at least. I walked around for 30 minutes like a douce and only a few underaged fat girls gave me eye contact. Getting aggrivated that no one is at the mall on a Wed afternoon, I decided to approch this fine columbin girl that I had brifely talked to a few weeks ago when my bro bought something from her. SHe had given me lots of looks (due to clothing last month) but I wussed out in starting a raptor with her and getting her number then. I decided to do it this time.

As I was walking towards her store, she saw me and smiled. I went up to her and said

Me) Hey Miss Columbian
*she is like the hottest girl I met with a awesome accent. Makes my european model ex-gf look avg*
HB9) Hey...as she is giggling from my comment.

I decided to use my pick up line that I had came up with for the first time on this hot girl. I fukin fuked up.

Me) I want to get to know you.
HB9) WTF look on her face.
Me) How old are you?
HB9) 21.
ME) Damn, I am only 20. Your too old for me.
*I tired to give eye contact but she is looking down at her counter looking disinterested and wtf.
I don't know why but I just stood their for like 8 seconds not saying ****. I knew I fuked up but since I thought about her for 3 weeks. I did not want to leave.
Then I said something stupid about her being better then my ex and left like one of the worst AFCs.

I got fukin pissed I fuked up on this. I got a call from an ex that needed a ride and I gave her one. She has herpes on her ******* now and I played a little game and got head from her. Hopefully that is the only thing I got from her.

Lessons learned from the fine columbian girl: Kill yourself, your pathic. and don't use that line. Here is a thread about using that line: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100270
 

Hurrican

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they where muslim girls so I am sure they are not hos. I was trying to get you guys to laugh while reading my threads.

A lot of damn typing. and sarging is fukin tiring. I got so tired after 2 days of sarging.
 
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