My approach technique

[Pdizzzzzzle]

Have you ever walked up to a girl, pulled off an amazing convo with her, number closed her, but still didn't get past that first date? I know I did when I first started out. You wanna know why? What you actually say in the conversation is probably only building 30% in the attraction level. As long as you keep the convo moving, and slightly interesting you should be good. Anyway, so yea the convo went well, but you ultimately failed. Why? Let me ask you a question: where you are rigid and stiff? did you have your hands balled up in fists in your pockets? Did you portray nervousness at all?

Turns out, your physical air-motto-carma thing that you give off by your body is one of the most important things when dealing with girls. If you walk up to a girl, have a good convo, and thats it, you'll almost always fail. It's like getting the Extra Credit question right, but failing the test. But if you walk up to the same girl with a relaxed, confident posture your chances of success sky rocket.

So go out and try this. Don't think about what your gonna say to a girl at all, just talk to her. Show her you relaxed and cool. Don't be nervous, you've done harder things than talk to a girl before, haven't you?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Yeah man I totally agree with that.
If you go in relaxed, then she's usually more relaxed.
Everybody gets nervous around a girl they like at some point though, unless you have a great amount of practice.

If you're making a move however, in the end your message matters more than your delivery.

 

[dj_jazzybrad]

I totally agree too. A lot of number closes for me have come from walking up to a friend taht I know, and theres a girl with them that I don't know. When I walk into the convo already relaxed talking to an older friend, its a lot easier.