My approach of the day

[zidane]

I had finished doing my college physics exam and went to the library. I saw this stunning white girl sitting in the corner and i thought i should approach.I decided to use an opener i had been thinking about(abortion). Girls love talking about stuff like this.
Me:I am taking this sociology class, and i would like to get your opinion on abortion, so are you prolife or prochoice
HB8smile)I am kinda in the middle(smile)bla bla bla.............................................................................
Me: why is that most men a prochoice
HB: Because they dont have to deal withe the child and carry him?her.
Me;Isnt it bad(disturbin)
HB:yeah
Me:So if you got into a situation like this, not that i am saying you would, what woul you do.
HB:I would keep the baby
me:that is good of you
Me;So what is you name
HB;DDDD
Me: I am Zidane, nice to meet you
me;what are you studying
hb;ART(she goes on to talk about the class)
It turns out she is taking a sociology class too, so she talked about what they were doing and stuff like Genocide in Darfur and Terrorism.
Me: I gotta go because i have an exam, so we should talk again some time
Hb;Yeah
ME.We should exchange phone numbers
Hb;She had the phone in her hand so she entered my digits.
ME;Just call that number then i can have your number
Hb;she calls
me;I gotta go, so i will talk to u later
Hb;It was nice meeting you
I then bailed.
She still wanted to talk to me but i had to leave, i did not really have an exam, so i was just using the time frame.She was smiling alot and seemed to be nice.
Background: I am originally from Africa(black) and i go to a small university in minnesota(3700 students) in a small town.For the past two semesters, i have always approached girls and have had alot of phone numbers(more than 50) and from these numbers i have been to 6 dates. From these dates, i havent had a kiss close or anything significant. They totally sucked.I have two jobs and i am taking 19 credits, so i dont have alot of free time.
I am totally against calling the first day and setting up the date because i have realised it is not working unless you have good rapport and is comfortable with you. I honestly think it is important if you talk twice on the phone(not more than 15 mins) to increase vallue and more rapport before you go on a date.This is becase there is a huge stigma associated with black people.WHAT DO Y'ALL THINK ???????

 

[greenlake]

maybe u should try touching her, playing with her hair, or act like u know how to read palm and then touch her hand. maybe u did those stuff, but i don't see u describing them in ur approach. action speak louder than word. i hope this help.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Nice job approaching...and with those numbers/dates. At least you've been making an effort and been active, that is good.

My only 'advice' is to stay away from these types of controversial topics with girls. I don't ever talk about religion, politics, etc. Find out more about her, and what she likes, is like, etc. Keep it light/fun. I am not super-duper at approaching right now, but I feel that you get numbers on pretense of an asexual conversation. You have to let her know you like her, otherwise when you call she will be surprised and flake. That's also probably why you're not doing great on dates. I'd say try dropping some compliments, and let her know you like her. Change what you talk about.

Keep up the awesome effort though.

 

[Cod3r]

Don't start conversations like that... controversial topics rouse interest not attraction...

Also your transition was pretty terrible... "So what's ur name anyway"

HB:I would keep the baby
me:that is good of you
Me;So what is you name

HB: I would keep the baby
ME: That is good for you uhhhh... didn't catch ur name

^ ^ Little things like that r just smoother...

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Try making them laugh, once they laugh b@tch shields are down 50%, crack a joke, CnF something... get her laughing, no attraction there mate !


-Cod3r