My approach journal (need feedback!)

[ChrizZ]

Hi,
I´m 17 years old, I weigh about 180pds and I´m 6´1 foot. I´d consider myself an 8.5 - 9 on the looks scale.

Approach #1:

I was sitting in the back of a bus. Two HBs came and were sitting next to me. The one HB was talking on her cell phone. After the HB was done using her cell phone I startet talking to her. The conversation went very well and the other HB started talking to me, too. She asked me about my name and where I live etc. I was talking to them a lot and kept the conversation going. They laughed a lot and the one HB asked me about my name and where I live. After a while she brought up that her bf was a great soccer fan. I just ignored that and kept on talking. I was entertaining the whole bus by that time. When the bus stopped she left without saying goodbye although she was really interested in me ( I think ). I´d consider them an HB8 and HB8.5

Approach #2:
I went clubbing that same day. After a while I lost my wingman though, when the dancefloor startet to get more crowded. I talked to an HB7. The convo went well, but her bf was sitting next to her all the time. So I just started to leave after a while although we talked for about 10mins.

Approach #3:
Later that night I tried to approach and HB8. She was sitting there alone. I tapped her on the shoulder...
Me: Hey, you look bored! Let´s go dancing!
HB7: Sry, I can´t my bf is sitting there.
Me: So what? When is the wedding?
HB7: (didn´t reply and turned away)
...Suddenly her bf started to give me a mean look. I didn´t know her bf was standing right next to her

Approach #4:
HB9 was standing with a friend and dancing in front of the dancefloor. She was probably 5 years older than me
Me: Come on, let´s dance!
HB9: No, I don´t think so... (and turns away)
I think even if Brad Pitt asked her to dance, she would have sayed the same thing. She was a real *****!

After that I was a lil´disappointed because there were no real HBs anymore that I found attractive, so I left. It was actually the first time I tried to approach women.


Pls gimme some feedback:woo:

 

[ChrizZ]

come on guys...

 

[ChrizZ]

Today, Oct. 21

Approach #5:
I was in a fashion store. An HB7 that goes to my school works there. I never ever talked to her though. We had EC and I walked up to her.

Me: Hi, I´m ChrizZ. I need some help her. I´m looking for a B-Day present for a female friend of mine, so I need some female advice.
HB7: Alright. What color does your friend like?
Me: I think she likes red. Isn´t that what all girls like?!
HB7: Ok... (shows me some shirts)
Me: Hmm, I don´t know. Why don´t you hold them in front of you, so I can see what they look like on a girl.
HB7: (*Holds shirt in front of her*) Hey, I think I know you, aren´t you going to X school?
Me: Yeah, I knew that I knew you from somewhere... .
*Checking her out* Hmm, looks really nice - and the shirt doesn´t look bad either
Well, I don´t know if I´m gonna buy it though. Why don´t you gimme your phone number in case I need some more fashion advice.

...HB7 gives me number and then I leave

Approach #6:
I was in a video rental store. The HB9 that worked there looked really pissed.
I was standing right in front of her and wanted to rent a dvd. She didn´t really looking at me when I gave her the DVD.
Me: Having a bad day?
HB9: *mumbling* No...
Me: You don´t talk much do you? Hey, it´s ok to be shy ... Sarah (looked at her name tag
HB9: *staring at me with the classic WTF?! look*
Me: *Smiling, having EC and grabbing the DVD* Well, it was nice talking to ya. You are the most interestign person I ever met *ironic smile:crackup: *

...After that I left

Guys, I really need some feedback. It seems that my game is getting better and better with each approach

 

[skip2mylou781]

approach #5 - possibly the best # close that i have read about on sosuave!!!!

you did a GREAT job there with being quick, being sexual, and being ****y

seriously, do more like that!

 

[ChrizZ]

Approaching really gets easier after a while. The mindset you gotta have when you talk to a woman is: "No matter what she´s gonna do or say, I´m the happiest person on earth because the fact that I know more about her emotions than she does, makes me superior. I´ll always be myself. The moment I fake my personallity, she already won."
Just think "I don´t have to be fake unlike her, so that people like me."
The only thing that makes a natural good with women is that he can see what´s going on inside of her. He reads her mind. Women are insecure, that´s why they dress up, put makeup on etc. If you can spot her insecurities, you´re superior and you dominate her mentally. You just gotta tell her that she´s insecure, but also tell her that it´s ok and that you don´t mind. I believe that you always have to be nice to women. Just be smarter than her, but treat her with respect. The best advice I can give you is be yourself and use the knowledge you learn on this site to your advantage.

 

[MIKE.T]

"I´m the happiest person on earth because the fact that I know more about her emotions than she does"

"If you can spot her insecurities, you´re superior and you dominate her mentally. You just gotta tell her that she´s insecure, but also tell her that it´s ok and that you don´t mind."

Hey that is some quality insight there. I never would have come up with something like that at 17. (Did you come up with that, or you have some playboy uncle giving you tips?)

 

[Ripper]

Hey dude, gotta admire your balls. i certainly didn't approach like that when I was 17.

Quick tip on the club thing. Clearly you have the right attitude which is good. However, given that it's a social setting (about as social as you're gonna get in fact) you would do well to have some social proof. In short, you to have VALUE. That will allow you to open a lot of girls precisely because you are a guy (Hell, THE guy) they want to come over and open them. Basically when you asked that HB9 to dance, though it was confident, you weren't coming from any position of strength. She's thinking: 'who is this guy? why does he think I would dance with him?Eww..what a creep...etc'. You get the point.

You're doing a great job though. Keep it up.

 

[gymshorts]

and how do you go about dominating her mentally and treating her nicely at the same time

 

[greenlake]

nice approaches. i like how u can come up with what to say right at the moment. approach 6 is funny. nice...nice...that's all i can say.

 

[Heyjose25points]

I hope you continue this more and more, and remain consistent with this. Easier said than done, as slumps can cause one to quit.

They laughed a lot and the one HB asked me about my name and where I live. After a while she brought up that her bf was a great soccer fan. I just ignored that and kept on talking. I was entertaining the whole bus by that time. When the bus stopped she left without saying goodbye although she was really interested in me (I think). I'd consider them a HB8 and HB8.5

I'm taking it. Done. Sometimes we gotta be the ones to say, "Bye" from my experience.

Approach #4:
HB9 was standing with a friend and dancing in front of the dancefloor. She was probably 5 years older than me
Me: Come on, let´s dance!
HB9: No, I don´t think so... (and turns away)
I think even if Brad Pitt asked her to dance, she would have sayed the same thing. She was a real *****!

I'm mad proud of you for letting that blowout roll off ur shoulders for ur first experience. You took it much better than my first one, I literally quit the game for 1 month because of that one night. For one, RESPECT.

About "C'mon Lets Dance", I use to do that all the time too...but some girls just don't want to dance, but are willing to talk. I think talking then dancing will be the way to go. Sometimes we forget Social Proof can be one of the main factors as some girls we talk to don't care but its new when u meet some that do...which is why sometimes we just gotta have it, and to have it...we make it( by Socializing?)

Good Luck with the rest of these.

 

[ChrizZ]

NOV 16

Approach #7:
Me and some friends of mine are in a bar. Suddenly that HB enters the door and my friends are like "wtf? who is she. She looks hot". She comes up to me and starts talking to me. I knew her. We used to go the same school. We talked for almost 15 minutes about school etc. After that she walked back to her friends. Like half an hour later my friends and I were about to leave, so I told her to come over to me, I isolated her and she gave me her phone number. I don´t think she was that hot, that´s why I never called her.

Approach #8:
I went clubbing with a friend the other day. It was crowded and suddenly I touched an HB6.5 and she almost spilled her drink.
HB6.5: "Hey, what r u doing. I almost spilled my drink."
Me:"I´m sorry sweetheart. How can I make up for that?"
HB6.5:"Buy me a drink!"
Me:"Yeah right, you´re worse than the homeless people I see on my way to work everyday :crackup: "
HB6.5: *Cracks up*
Me: "I´m sorry sweetheart. I gotta get back to my friends."

Approach #9:
I was grinding with an HB6. At first she was like "wtf? who is that" (a mistake I made: Never approach a dancing girl without having EC). She looked at her friend that was dancing next to her and her friend whispered "It´s ok. He´s really hot" ( I had a lil´ confidence boost here :rockon: )
After a while I decided to get a drink and left her. After I was done drinking I decided to go back to her. I saw an ugly dude that was trying to dance with her. I felt sorry for him and figured out that HB6 was a real *****. She told him to fvck off and told him he was too ugly to dance with her. So when she saw me she wanted me to dance with her again.
HB6: "Come on let´s dance again"
Me: "I´m sorry, but I don´t dance with ugly chicks. I´ll get back to you when I´m drunk enough. Oh and by the way, you would be less annoying if you had some boobs to look at :rock: "

...Trust me guys. The look on her face was priceless. After that I had a drink with the guy that she rejected and I´m friends with him now.:yes:
Later on I left the club because there were no more hot chicks. The problem is all the hot chicks are way older than me and have boyfriends with very high status and I don´t wanna make out with HBs lower than an 8.

Sarge on...:rockon:

 

[mrRuckus]

NOV 16
I saw an ugly dude that was trying to dance with her. I felt sorry for him and figured out that HB6 was a real *****. She told him to fvck off and told him he was too ugly to dance with her. So when she saw me she wanted me to dance with her again.
HB6: "Come on let´s dance again"
Me: "I´m sorry, but I don´t dance with ugly chicks. I´ll get back to you when I´m drunk enough. Oh and by the way, you would be less annoying if you had some boobs to look at :rock: "

You are my hero of the day. Please return to this thread on Febuary 23rd 2013 for your prize.

 

[greenlake]

that is a nice thing of u in approach #9. she deserve it. and a HB can't be a HotBabe if she lower than a 7.