it's not interesting enough. now i'm not really used to having guests over, my parents were both pretty much recluses and i grew up that way. but now i live on my own and i want to have people over. this goes for guys and girls. i want them to be able to enjoy themselves...not be bored out of their minds. give me some suggestions on entertaining props, $hit to buy, stuff to do. y'know what i'm sayin?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
my apartment..
- Thread starter Yapper
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
howardalex
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you need girly crap I'm afraid...I'll give you an example of my room at uni, although it's only small so just for ideas 
I bought a poster with a black cat and french writing on for my wall, a calendar with pigs, lava lamps for cool lighting, cushions for decoration + they do actually come in handy, got some big ass speakers too...
if you have enough room and cash, how about a projector for watching movies? also, check peekvid.com for loads of free ones, could be useful
I bought a poster with a black cat and french writing on for my wall, a calendar with pigs, lava lamps for cool lighting, cushions for decoration + they do actually come in handy, got some big ass speakers too...
if you have enough room and cash, how about a projector for watching movies? also, check peekvid.com for loads of free ones, could be useful
he doesn't have to get girly. Get some nice sound, some speakers, tv (a nice tv Projection or HD is awesome) Get an air hockey table or pool table, ping pong, or just lots of alcohol!! People will love your place
All that you have to keep in mind in an apartment is that it needs to feel home-y. It just needs to have a comfortable feel. The specifics aren't that important. Size of speakers, type of tv. Not that big of a deal. Just make it cozy and you're place is where everyone wants to hang out.