it's not interesting enough. now i'm not really used to having guests over, my parents were both pretty much recluses and i grew up that way. but now i live on my own and i want to have people over. this goes for guys and girls. i want them to be able to enjoy themselves...not be bored out of their minds. give me some suggestions on entertaining props, $hit to buy, stuff to do. y'know what i'm sayin?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
my apartment..
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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you need girly crap I'm afraid...I'll give you an example of my room at uni, although it's only small so just for ideas 
I bought a poster with a black cat and french writing on for my wall, a calendar with pigs, lava lamps for cool lighting, cushions for decoration + they do actually come in handy, got some big ass speakers too...
if you have enough room and cash, how about a projector for watching movies? also, check peekvid.com for loads of free ones, could be useful
I bought a poster with a black cat and french writing on for my wall, a calendar with pigs, lava lamps for cool lighting, cushions for decoration + they do actually come in handy, got some big ass speakers too...
if you have enough room and cash, how about a projector for watching movies? also, check peekvid.com for loads of free ones, could be useful
he doesn't have to get girly. Get some nice sound, some speakers, tv (a nice tv Projection or HD is awesome) Get an air hockey table or pool table, ping pong, or just lots of alcohol!! People will love your place
All that you have to keep in mind in an apartment is that it needs to feel home-y. It just needs to have a comfortable feel. The specifics aren't that important. Size of speakers, type of tv. Not that big of a deal. Just make it cozy and you're place is where everyone wants to hang out.