"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My "Alpha widow" experience

Greasy Pig

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Was tuning this HB 7.5 on Friday night and doing very well, or so I thought!

She approached and asked if she could buy me a drink, there was lots of kino and laughing. Then we went outside for a smoke and she says: "Fvck, there's my ex over there. He is such a fvcking douche and thinks he's so awesome."

I knew I was in trouble right then. This guy was dressed like a bum and leaning on a pole obviously very drunk but he was pretty fit and looked fairly cool.

Anyway, I try to usher HB7.5 back in to the club but the bouncers told us we had to line up again. Fuk! That meant we had to walk past this dude and, sure enough, she stops to talk to him.
I kept walking and started talking to two girls in the line. Then, as I get to the door, she yells out, "I'll see you in there". I just laughed and ignored her.

Of course she never returned. The funny thing is that on FB the next day she posted a huge rant about this guy being a player, and too afraid to commit and sleeping around blah blah blah.
Very insightful for me and had to share with the group.
Alpha widow-ism exists!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Greasy Pig said:
Was tuning this HB 7.5 on Friday night and doing very well, or so I thought!

She approached and asked if she could buy me a drink, there was lots of kino and laughing. Then we went outside for a smoke and she says: "Fvck, there's my ex over there. He is such a fvcking douche and thinks he's so awesome."

I knew I was in trouble right then. This guy was dressed like a bum and leaning on a pole obviously very drunk but he was pretty fit and looked fairly cool.

Anyway, I try to usher HB7.5 back in to the club but the bouncers told us we had to line up again. Fuk! That meant we had to walk past this dude and, sure enough, she stops to talk to him.
I kept walking and started talking to two girls in the line. Then, as I get to the door, she yells out, "I'll see you in there". I just laughed and ignored her.

Of course she never returned. The funny thing is that on FB the next day she posted a huge rant about this guy being a player, and too afraid to commit and sleeping around blah blah blah.
Very insightful for me and had to share with the group.
Alpha widow-ism exists!!!
alpha widows defineatly exist. hell i've been there before. t he funny thing is, that you realize for whatg it is you really can't even get mad at the girl. sometimes **** just happens. just tip your hat to the dude and respect the game and move on. **** there are 2 girls i dated in the past that there is no doubt if i showed up whatever they are in right now is getting wrecked instantly. my wife the same way if something ever happened i don't care how much she rants about how arrogant or selfish i am let me call her lol.

just take solice that someday that you will have some girl sitting outside the bar talking to some guy and she will see you and **** will hit the fan and dude will be like "oh **** what's going on" and next thing you know she's telling you, in your bed lol, how much of a jerk you are.
 

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Ha ha, very true BB. I just laugh about it because I've been "that guy".
Once I found myself in a cab line behind a chick I'd fvcked a few weeks earlier. She was with some other dude but she latched on to me. The look on his face was priceless.

You're exactly right, you should just tip your hat to the game and move on.
I thought it was funny how HB7.5 was fully ragging on him to me but still needed his attention when he refused to acknowledge her.
It was poetry in motion.
 
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