Hi everyone, i am reading this forum for a few months, it’s my first post. Sorry for my bad english.
I have cold approached this cute blond girl in the street in the end of January. I started to write her the dau after and she was wondering why I took so much time ( shows a good interest IMO)
We spoke quite a lot for 2 weeks, I asked her out for the joke for the 14th February. I offered her a mango (for the joke of everyone offering smthg, it was her favorite fruit).
I have quite a good experience with ONS but I felt it won’t work with this girl. I know she had one boyfriend for 4 years and they left few month ago. She told me she needs time to know someone.
She told me also that she is never sleeping in someone house (even friend). We were talking of partying…
So knowing that for the first date I was not touchy touchy, neither for the second. It worked quite well because she was still interested, answered my message in a minute, proposed the second date.
I have always lead her, passed **** test, very good game from my side.
She went to Barcelona with her mother. While speaking with her for 1 month, she offered me socks with her favorite animal and her mother offered me some food ( wtf?? ). I have never met her mother. But she was sending me pics with her mother while travelling.
For the third date I took her hand and we walked.
For the fourth date, I was now going to escalate further, i proposed her to make crêpe at home ( frenchy
).
It was very fun and towards the end of the date we were more and more touchy, she didn’t pulled back, I also kissed her, no pull back again.
I took her to the bedroom,tried to make out, but I was feeling something weird. She was not comfortable. I asked her if everything was ok, she said yes. She was a bit shocked maybe.
i tried to pull out pant, she pulled back. I said ok,I reassured her and we cuddled for 10 min.
She went home. The day after we talked a bit about the subject (mistake), she said « it was a bit too fast ».
I don’t know what to do or how to behave ? Continuing escalation ? Or taking some distance physically ?
What I did wrong ?
she texted me yesterday, i still didn’t answered…
I have cold approached this cute blond girl in the street in the end of January. I started to write her the dau after and she was wondering why I took so much time ( shows a good interest IMO)
We spoke quite a lot for 2 weeks, I asked her out for the joke for the 14th February. I offered her a mango (for the joke of everyone offering smthg, it was her favorite fruit).
I have quite a good experience with ONS but I felt it won’t work with this girl. I know she had one boyfriend for 4 years and they left few month ago. She told me she needs time to know someone.
She told me also that she is never sleeping in someone house (even friend). We were talking of partying…
So knowing that for the first date I was not touchy touchy, neither for the second. It worked quite well because she was still interested, answered my message in a minute, proposed the second date.
I have always lead her, passed **** test, very good game from my side.
She went to Barcelona with her mother. While speaking with her for 1 month, she offered me socks with her favorite animal and her mother offered me some food ( wtf?? ). I have never met her mother. But she was sending me pics with her mother while travelling.
For the third date I took her hand and we walked.
For the fourth date, I was now going to escalate further, i proposed her to make crêpe at home ( frenchy
).It was very fun and towards the end of the date we were more and more touchy, she didn’t pulled back, I also kissed her, no pull back again.
I took her to the bedroom,tried to make out, but I was feeling something weird. She was not comfortable. I asked her if everything was ok, she said yes. She was a bit shocked maybe.
i tried to pull out pant, she pulled back. I said ok,I reassured her and we cuddled for 10 min.
She went home. The day after we talked a bit about the subject (mistake), she said « it was a bit too fast ».
I don’t know what to do or how to behave ? Continuing escalation ? Or taking some distance physically ?
What I did wrong ?
she texted me yesterday, i still didn’t answered…
