"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My AFC Friend And His Girl

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My friend is so AFC its not even funny!!

He is seeing this girl and she is a HB 9 very hot girl.

And he is just always doing everything for her, always leaving and going to hers when she demands it and she is loving the attention. Ive tried chatting to him and getting him to see the error of his ways but he is having none of it.

But basically the story is new years eve i was sitting talking to her on my m8's sofa and somehow she came out with a line about why we never kissed.

I was so drunk and just thought that it wouldnt matter and damn there was a good response from her, should i tell me Afc friend about it or just keep quite and let him make his own mistakes??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MadTyteYo!

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i'd tell him cause he will be mader when she tells him
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If you value your friendship, don't tell him a thing. You do need to tell her that you will not discuss that type of thing with her since you respect your mate.

Understand that not everyone can be a DJ. You can not save your mate from anything unless he wants the help, then the best you can do is point him into the right direction.

If they eventually break up, and they probably will, don't get involved with her what so ever if you care about your friendship.
 

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I'd tell him the truth. That way he knows his girls a *****, and that your a horrible person, who doesn't value friendship, and that he's better off dropping both of you. Cheers

p.s. Karmas a biyatch. Remember this when this happens to you and it will, self delusioned don juan or no.
 

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First of all she was drunk!! Second of all you know what type of crazy **** people say when they're faded. Yeah I know most of the time the truth comes out when your drunk, but a lot of time you say **** that you don't even remember. I'd let it slide and act like it never happened. If she comes at you AGAIN with this, then I'd tell my buddy because its his GIRL!! If they weren't dating anymore or had just broken up then it would be different, but they're still together (at least for the time being) so you should tell him if you guys are really close.



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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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