"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My advice on keeping a girlfriend.

SamTheHobit

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Rule #1 - Selecting a quality Girlfriend.

What do you desire in a girlfriend?
Ask yourself that, and settle for nothing less.

Keep in mind compatibility and common passions.

Rule #2 - Do things from a place of security

What I mean is do things for her because you genuinely care.

Do not do things for her to gain her acceptance and approval, this comes from a place of insecurity and nothing is more unattractive to a women.

Rule #3 - Lasting Attraction

This has been mentioned countless times.

Women want to feel feminine and for them to really feel feminine, they must be in the presence of a masculine man.. That display masculine traits.

By being dominant a women will naturally fall into the submissive role.

Rule #4 - Traits of an attractive man

Be a leader : Women naturally want to be taken by the hand and shown the way.

Be Decisive : Be confident in your plans and ideas.

Self assured : Don't look for approval from your girlfriend or anyone for that matter.

Self-controlled : This has to do with being mature and women want a mature man. (Don't arouse to anger quickly)

Modest : Don't Brag.

Approval Giving : Approval is like currency if you don't spend it, it's like having none. If you have no value, you cannot give it away.

Be ambitious!

Rule #5 - Relationship Killers

Approval seeking behaviour

Controlling behaviour

Jealousy

Clinginess

Arguing - A mature man should be above this.

Isolation

Rule #6 - Setting boundaries

Everyone has there own boundaries and these should be set at the very begging of the relationship.

She is free to cross them at any time. But you should deal with it appropriately.

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That was just a few things I thought would keep a relationship going.

Please feel free to add your own.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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good stuff from a 19 year old, that said, these are not fail safes. its is a blueprint, a solid base.
 

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One MAJOR point you left out....

FVCK her good! mke her come everytime!!

She'll keep coming back for more...
 

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Boscus said:
One MAJOR point you left out....

FVCK her good! mke her come everytime!!

She'll keep coming back for more...
Yeah, totally agreed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most women can't cvm with just dvck, but they want to do so, and can learn to do so, most of the time, if you will take the trouble. While you may have the time or want to take the time, at first, to devote an hour or more to each session, many of us, at least a lot of the time, dont want to bother that much, that long.Including a vibrator into foreplay can be a huge help, time wise. Saving 200 hours per year, for say,10 years (along with knowing what to do with those hours to make them productive) can lead to having all the free time you want, after about, age 30.
 
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